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Poppet do you think it would be ok to have diet type soft drinks? I don't like soft drink because they are too sweet but will do as the dr orders!!!! Diet is better for teeth and waist....
Also...just a question for a few of the more experienced or not!!!!!.....lol.....bonesmarties.....how do you deal with everyone who has their opinion about my surgeon?????
My husband is telling me about a few relatives who are nurses who are ranting a bit to him and are angry because they feel more wasn't done about my infection and because I've been so sick?????
I personally feel that my OS has been great at every turn. He wanted to see me the day I presented to my local GP with the redness around wound, heat and flu like symptoms. The GP said there was no discharge as the pus came out 1.5 days before and told him there was no point. The OS also asked for a swab but again the GP advised that there was nothing to swab....true it had healed over after the initial discharge. The OS spoke to my GP by phone at each of my return visits to him and gave me his mobile number to contact him if I deteriorated.
All the Drs who sighted the wound felt that it was a stitch abscess type infection. MY OS had scheduled regular checkups with me.....I only got to 1 because then I deteriorated and we contacted him on a Saturday and he admitted me to hospital.
I had 3 infections....pneumonia, UTI and finally the hip. My symptoms are extremely non typical of a deep wound infection. My scar does not hurt, even with deep palpitations. My joint is not sore....it's a little achy but certainly not painful....I walk and move well and have good ROM....keeping in mind I am only 3.5 months post op and many of these niggles could just be post surgery. I am the OS's first infection in 5 years. The hospital staff can't speak highly enough of his standards and the same goes for theatre staff I know.
I suppose what I'm trying to say is that I feel I have been well managed, been taken seriously, and looked after but how do I keep my confidence when I am soon to be thrown to the real world wolves (well meaning medical and non medical friends and family!!!!) when I leave here????? Hubby has been fielding most of the calls and up u til today I've had no visitors except hubby and kids because I requested it in order to be able to rest.
Hubby is already telling people that I don't need to hear their opinions that I need support and positiveness to get me through this. I don't need to lose trust if I am to have further surgery with him to resolve this and get a good outcome.
Alternatively......do I have any reason not to feel reassured by my Drs?????? I have the OS, respiratory Dr and Professor of Microbiology (haven't met him but he's consulting on my case). The OS and other DR have visited everyday sometimes twice a day, rang many times to check results etc and conferred with each other. Also, who covers my out of pocket expenses for all this???? I will not be getting any income in the foreseeable future....and medical bills and loss of income have been significant and now worse by these complications in the future.
I'll tag a few of you bonesmartie veterans so you can pass these concerns onto whoever you feel is relevant to offer an opinion or who has been in a similar situation....if that's ok....well sorry if its not.....I've done it.



Also advice for having alcoholic beverages over the hols and celebrations considering everything?????
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