the surgical pain is nowhere near the bone on bone pain
Hi, @
mystikfairy61:
Nice of you to say you enjoy the posts. Thanks. That is very kind and it's one of the things that keeps my fingers typing.
I think I need to clarify something FROM MY PERSPECTIVE ALONE about the surgical pain being nowhere near the bone on bone pain.
There is something to that. I, however, might disagree with a certain aspect of that assertion. This surgery is a big deal. I am happy I did it because I Remain Optimistic due the testimonials of people here, my doctor's summation, the general success rate of this type of surgery. I'm happy I did it because I THINK it will be better, not because it already IS better.
I am
not, at this moment, 6 days post op, in less pain that prior to surgery. It's different. In some ways it's worse. In some ways it's better.
It's manageable with drugs, relaxation, chair/bed time, ice, etc. But it's not a walk in the park. It's also not
terrible.
My point is that since there are a lot of people out there cheering you on and giving you testimonials of how great the outcome is, those people are UNIQUE individuals with UNIQUE problems, solutions, histories, scenarios and pain tolerance levels.
When I first stood up after surgery (the following day in the am) it was VERY difficult to GET standing. It was very difficult to stand and I had numb pieces of both legs, pain pretty much everywhere from my lower abdomen to my knees and I was NOT stable at all. I can tell you that the pain that I felt standing in the same position PRE-surgery was GONE. So yes, the bone on bone stuff is GONE INSTANTLY. But it is replace by a whole lotta other stuff.
What keeps me Remaining Optimistic is that I see this as an APEX to the problem. I started with no pain, then I had a little, then two years later I had a LOT and then I had surgery. Now I have a LOT but I can, because of the general success rate of this surgery and what everyone who's done it says, assume that from here it just gets BETTER.
I must say that this last 6 days has been more difficult than ANY 6-day period BEFORE surgery. More trying, more difficult, more painful, more dependent on others. But it also represents, and actually is, a new beginning which can be seen (at points when you're not feeling sorry for yourself..oh, yes that WILL happen, and probably already has) with an optimistic attitude and a future-is-bright optimism.
Just don't ask me that when I'm having a drug reaction or can't reach my reading glasses or have to pee or my entire body hurts from laying on JUST my back while trying to sleep.
Hey, Donna, my new awesome friend and fellow hippie:
this is going to have a happy ending. Just don't assume that it's not really, really, REALLY difficult at first and for a while.
DrToonz (not a real doctor)