Nylsor,
sandybeach,
Elosarabrab,
sharonslp,
nmscienceteacher ...
I am grateful for many pieces of wonderful advice I've gotten on this site, but ESPECIALLY for the idea of having my husband massage my bottom. When I told him about nylsor's husband, yesterday, and asked if he would do that for me, he SPRANG into action. He said, "Why wait? Let's get started now!" It was hard to get him to stop, and now he says we have to practice every day, because it is therapeutic for the arthritis in his hands. So -- thank you, nylsor, for the biggest laugh I've had in a long time as well as for lighting up my love life!
I hope you are all doing well. You are in my thoughts. I'm looking forward to my surgery on July 10th and to moving to "the other side" (it sounds like a seance).