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Hi @Lerwick8
I can tell this is weighing heavily on your mind and I feel for you. You seem so conflicted. You want to make the best decision for you.
I wish I could help, but I can't. I made my decision based solely on recommendation of several people due to my surgeons reputation and number of surgeries performed. I had close family members who used him and many years later have no problems. I didn't consider anterior / posterior much before making the decision on a surgeon and scheduling it. Upon scheduling it I questioned the methods and learned my surgeon does posterior ONLY. I didn't question it as I'd already made up my mind he was going to be my surgeon.
Let your gut or your heart be your guide. You have enough info, now you just need to decide. If you are a person of faith at all......leave it up to God. Ask for clear roadblocks to be placed to help you make a decision. I'll add you to my evergrowing prayer list that you gain clarity and make a confident decision.
I wish you luck in whatever you decide and hope you continue to post while in recovery.
PS. As you've heard recovery is not as brutal as we all imagined, nor does it take that long. I guarantee you will be pleasantly surprised.
Sending a hug and wishing you a great week!
I can tell this is weighing heavily on your mind and I feel for you. You seem so conflicted. You want to make the best decision for you.
I wish I could help, but I can't. I made my decision based solely on recommendation of several people due to my surgeons reputation and number of surgeries performed. I had close family members who used him and many years later have no problems. I didn't consider anterior / posterior much before making the decision on a surgeon and scheduling it. Upon scheduling it I questioned the methods and learned my surgeon does posterior ONLY. I didn't question it as I'd already made up my mind he was going to be my surgeon.
Let your gut or your heart be your guide. You have enough info, now you just need to decide. If you are a person of faith at all......leave it up to God. Ask for clear roadblocks to be placed to help you make a decision. I'll add you to my evergrowing prayer list that you gain clarity and make a confident decision.
I wish you luck in whatever you decide and hope you continue to post while in recovery.
PS. As you've heard recovery is not as brutal as we all imagined, nor does it take that long. I guarantee you will be pleasantly surprised.
Sending a hug and wishing you a great week!
There she is over on my thread telling me to cut back, and what's she doing every day? Getting in and out of her car, walking the "green mile" who knows how many times, yelling at volunteers to find her cane, and generally not relaxing a whole lot. Mojo, taketh thine own medicine!! 
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