Hi BarabooProud,
Just reading your progress report and am here to affirm your progress is pretty normal! I thought I’d mention what I did when I had an important event soonish after TKR, to give you more ideas… I always call a hotel to confirm I will have access to a freezer for ice packs! Once, at a convention, it was in a basement freezer, but staff were sweet and sympathetic and got me my well-labeled ice packs as needed!
I take 3 at least, so one can be on my knee, one heading back to freeze, one almost ready for later. I always have a 2nd chair handy, or a stool, so I can put my leg up on that if I’m in a place where there are hours worth of schmoozing…like a graduation! Then I invite folks to come hang out with me to chat… it’s worked at meetings and conventions, both. (Why so much experience you wonder? Had to wait 5 years between TKRs so was in pain for several years and still had to live my life!)
You have every right to be as comfortable as you can be! And you are within your rights to take it easy, too! If you need to sit to rest, invite others to join you; they might really appreciate the idea and not be as self-preserving as you are!
I was lucky: my mom had polio and was super feisty so I had a pro to learn how to advocate for myself!
Oh, and do take one of those cooler bags too, to use to transport your ice packs to and from events; you can probably find one that will fit your ice packs, though it might be kind of heavy… I found a backpack style one that worked!
Assume that you might need a bit more pain medication, too, if you have to be up and about more during the events, too… prepared is better than not, eh?!
It sounds like your daughter must be graduating from a visual arts program, so congratulations to all!