Well, I just had a rather interesting development. Was getting ready to try to settle in for the night, and sat on my bed like I always *used to* when getting things in order (i.e. setting alarm, plugging devices in, getting book, etc ). Now, one might think that sitting is not such a big deal, as we have all done waaaayyyyy too much sitting during our recoveries. But, the kicker here is that without even thinking, I sat crossed legged! Just as if it was normal, as it is frequently how I sat prior to Bionic Spence. :mind blown: He didn't fuss or argue or anything. Of course when I looked down and realized what I had done I uncrossed legs so as not to aggravate Spence, but for me and my quest to reduce the amount if thought I give to Spence, I thought this was huge! Doing *normal* stuff without planning it all out first! Maybe there is a light somewhere at the end of this long dark tunnel after all!
). In any case, he decided to completely severe ties with the cane. Not to worry, he had a good attorney and received everything in the settlement!
I haven't been using the cane for quite some time now, maybe 2 months, but when I went back to work I put the cane in my vehicle *just in case*. I haven't had to use it, so it just sat there, mocking poor Spence as a reminder that he isn't all grown up yet. So today was the day that Spence put his foot down and kicked it out!
It was a proud moment once the initial shock and sadness wore off. Nice to see him get rid of that 
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You're on your way to "normal!" I've had a few moments like that myself. ![[Bonesmart.org] Fire wolf recovery<](https://data.bonesmart.org/attachments/51/51349-9593e5c8a6fe630d7bc56d3c10278c3b.jpg?hash=lZPlyKb-Yw "[Bonesmart.org] Fire wolf recovery<")
