Good Morning Debbie,
I’m sorry it may have looked as though I was online, but I stepped out for a bit. It takes about 30 minutes of inactivity for our name to drop off which means we’re not always on the forum while our name is showing. I’m glad you found what you were looking for.
You were on my mind to check in on as I read elsewhere you were feeling a little blue yesterday and I was going to see if you’re doing any better today. I hope that you are.
I experienced a little post op blues myself a couple times early on, but noticed the mood that would wash over me seemed to disappear almost as quickly as it came. That’s not necessarily the case with everyone though. I think there are many possible causes. Pain, fatigue, reactions to pharmaceuticals, the physical and emotional stress of surgery and recovery, the inability to do what you want, when you want and therefore feeling dependent upon others. Then there can be nagging thoughts of complications, which are rare. There’s also boredom.
I found it necessary to stay busy, keeping my mind occupied. I also needed to get outside and take in the sights, sounds and scents of nature. Soak in some sunshine. A car ride even helps. If you can exercise by walking outdoors, I highly recommend it. I’d only gauge progress by weeks, not days. Pick a day of the week and reflect back on what improvements you’ve made on that day only each week. Attempting to see daily progress can be a downer as it’s not that noticeable. Eat as healthy a diet as possible and stay adequately hydrated. All important.
I’ll share a few suggestions of things I did to keep my mind engaged: crossword puzzles, regular puzzles, color in adult coloring books, read a good book, research and plan your next vacation, peruse Pinterest or Houzz...if you have any interest in homes / decor, start a recipe collection, play online games, page through magazines, call an old friend, catch up on emails, organize a photo album, watch a Netflix series or movies on the Hallmark channel which is most often light and uplifting....to name only a few.
Sending a hug your way and wishes for a brighter day!
@Dmcfad2