Hi
@Constanze Thanks for your visit to my thread... always nice to see you
I'm with you with being grateful for living "in the future" rather than in the past! I'm glad your recovery is going so well, glad you don't have to worry about your other hip too... it is the less common scenario; most of the time if you have a problem in one joint you have it elsewhere. I have OA "head to foot", which sounds so dramatic

but to be honest I hardly notice it's presence in most of those areas, it's only some joints that hurt (hips, knees and fingers mainly) - oh and the fact that I can't have my bunions removed now as the bones in my feet are too arthritic to pin to, well I CAN have them fixed but only by having my foot fused, which would result in not being able to bend it - and not being able to wear high heels.... life (and
I 
) are too short to not wear heels again so I'll put up with the bunion, at least for the foreseeable future!
The right hip's gonna go sooner - I was walking the dogs yesterday and we had to go slow as our Jack Russel has just had cruciate ligament surgery (he jumped off a wall at my Mum's the day we left Melbourne... amid all the drama of missing our flight I got a phone call from the vet saying he'd ruptured it and would need surgery - I was literally at the boarding gate and couldn't get my head around decision making, so got them to give him painkillers until we got back, he had the surgery the day after and it's a four month recovery period - worse than a THR

) anyway going slow made me change my gait and it really showed up the issues with the right hip, I think I've been in denial. No, not true, it's nowhere near as bad still as the left; I'm not going to let it get that bad as the restrictions were longer because of the more complicated surgery, not rushing either - don't relish being restricted again just yet
It's interesting that you say you were clumsy as a child; I wasn't too bad then, but became quite clumsy and prone to falling over early in adulthood; I have not fallen over once since I had my hip done - I don't know if it's just that I am more aware, but I don't feel I am... I actually feel more balanced

When I had the surgery the OS said I have dysplasia (mainly a malformed acetabulum) and was probably born with it; it will be interesting to see if there's evidence of it in the other hip when I have it done, I think (?) it is usually bilateral - which again would make you lucky having only one bad hip.
I think your osteoporosis is the luck of the draw too Constanze, you should stop beating yourself up about what you did or didn't do or eat in the past; you're probably just unlucky as you certainly have done more than most tow lead a healthy life and have a healthy body
I'm happy to hear you're going to NZ in January, you'll love it! We went to the North Island the second time we went to NZ. It is very pretty, not as majestic as the South Island we think, but there are loads of volcanic hills around and plenty to see, if you can get as far as Lake Taupo it's well worth the trip - 616 square kilometres of lake, beautiful town and loads of geysers and "things worth seeing" like Huka Falls nearby - things I'm sure you'd like as you like trade fairs and informative stuff :cool:
I thought I'd warn you about the Sandflies - they're not as bad on the North Island as the West coast of the South, but they are around Auckland; we're used to mosquitoes (which they have too) but boy, NOTHING itches like a Sandfly bite. Make sure you take (or buy when you get there, NZ is very bio-hazard aware and don't like you taking some stuff in) plenty of repellent (the ones with DEET in are far better) They don't usually bite indoors or at night, only during the day but in the early mornings and at dusk they are heinous! Bad around water, even fast moving water... fresh or salt! They really like toes, I'm not joking I thought I'd go mad the last time, was very well prepared this time and only got one bite on my foot (it's still itching a bit, three weeks later!) I'm not sure what they're like in January, but in April they were BAD (though we went in April the first time too and didn't have as great a problem as the second time

), not as bad this time (October) so I'm thinking they're a warm weather thing.... which would make repellent in January crucial
Anyways, hope your healing continues apace,
Donna
