LeeApril26 Thank you for the suggestions. Although I think it's too soon to go to a pain clinic, though. That would be my last resort, when everything else is ruled out. I'm not quite ready to throw up my hands and declare these hips a failure. It's only been 3 months, and although it seems like a lifetime, maybe there is something wrong that can be fixed, or maybe I do need Prednisne, and it will take time. I want to have another specialists' point of view, instead of only the surgeon who did the procedure. His opinion isn't exactly unbiased, I don't think.
This pain is related to specific activity, such as weight bearing, walking and flexion of the hips, as in bending over. That tells me there's a reason for it and it isn't because my body is habituated to sending pain signals, I don't think. It's ok when I first get up for ~ 1-3 hours, and it starts as a burning first that then becomes a pain. If I rest and ice, it gets better, and it's good at night, once I'm in bed and I've iced. It hasn't interfered with my sleep, thankfully. (and I hope it doesn't!) If I take it easy most of the day, it's not bad. It starts when I do things - more than just a walk down the driveway, or spend time in a store. And it's worse toward the later part of the day. So it isn't there all of the time. I've thought of a pain clinic, too, but that's way down the end of my list when I'm sure that there is nothing that can be done, and my only option is to live with this for the rest of my life or see a pain specialist. But I think it's too soon for me to resort to that. The same with acupuncture - I want to be sure there's nothing causing the pain, I don't want to just treat the symptom, and not the cause, unless I have to. But thank you for thinking of that, I appreciate the suggestion!
BarbaraR Yes, acupressure massage. I've been doing that three times a day, along with Arnica cream, as suggested by
sandybeach and
Kim22, and I read about it in the library in this forum. There's no knot where the pain is, though. It's in the groin, not the thigh muscle. I did do acupressure massage on a sore thigh muscle, too, and it helped that alot. So I know it can be very effective, that's why I keep doing it, although it hasn't helped this, unfortunately. Thanks for the suggestion and the concern, though! I welcome any ideas that might help.

This could be a case of over-doing it unintentionally early on, too, as I had several MD appt. during week 4 for a red and swollen, inflammed toe, and had to do a fair amount of walking and driving. That combined with PT that was flexion and strength training and walking exercises, three times a week. It started the week after that, and has gotten worse. It subsides, but starts up again when I resume activity. I'm trying to pay very close attention to pacing myself carefully, so I don't overdo it again and again. Hopefully that will help.
Kim22 You're right, having a plan does help, and I do have one. I'm still hopeful that this will get better! "by this time next year...." That's what I'm thinking. Just as you are, I know.
Good job
Liveringer - with the joking around and having hubby help out! It sounds like he's very devoted to you anyhow and doesn't mind at all. Same with
sandybeach. The husbands here have been wonderful, haven't they? I'm very grateful to mine, and do whatever I can. We share alot of the responsibility, although I'm sure he'd rather I do more cooking now! I wish I could, too, and I do simple things that don't require alot of bending or standing. I have my stool in the kitchen that I can sit on to prepare things. It helps!