TexasTee
post-grad
Tim said it so well...I'm personally sick to death of thinking and speaking of my knee as a separate, highly unsavory, entity! I'll be happy to go back to ignoring it like I do all the rest of the fully functional body parts. 
United States
I realise that it is HUGE focus for the next while so I just rationalise that "one day, my knees and I will be normal". I figure this is a good filter for friends - those that stay around and ask are real friends - those that shy away...well perhaps the need to be relegated to the "acquaintance" category for a little bit.
United StatesThat ia a great analogy. But someday, when you are all recovered and have moved on from this, you will be able to forget about the knee or knees for days---for days at a time.I guess the bottom line for me is what I am going to do is mega (Vinny & Tim BTDT and come out the other side - Texas Tee you are in the boat with me) so I figure it is just part of the journey. Relax and go with the flow. An analogy - pregnant women - what else do they talk about - I rest my cas
Canada
Little ones keeping your up at night and all 

CanadaGood afternoon. This is my first attempt to join a thread. I've been reading everything I can since I decided to go forward with a BTKR. My surgeon said he will do one knee and the second 3 days later. Does this sound right? Needless to say I am anxious and worried about recovery too. You folks have answered so many of my questions already.

I have not heard of a bilatera lbeing done 3 days apart but these surgeons all have their own way of doing things and I am sure yours has good reasons for this approach - if you want to know more ask him (assume is a male cause there are only a handful of girlies in this speciality) It is your right as a patient to be fully informed.
(respectfully sarcastic) BUT more seriously you will learn a lot from these 2 about recovery. Both guys have been great with my questions answering honestly and candidly - something I really appreciate - thanks U2 xx.
hence my decision to do the double
- see you all soon in the cyber world - cheers Maggie x
. I'm all for the rest elevation and ice ununderpinned by meds. Gentle movements in bed and gradual move to vertical and other excitement.