Why do some people, who have never experienced a knee replacement themselves, feel the need to tell you about all the problems, "someone they know" has endured?
Since our coastal air was a little cooler this morning, I decided that I wanted to have morning coffee out on our deck. It was the first time that I had been out of the house since I got home from the hospital a week ago Friday.
Anyway, as my spouse and I were sitting out on our deck, enjoying our coffee and enjoying watching the numerous boats out in the bay, over trotted our neighbor. This particular neighbor is a "seasonal person." Meaning he and his family come to the beach for a few weeks/week-ends in the summer then we don't see them again for the rest of the year. Since we had not seen him since last summer, he wanted to catch up on the news with us and the area.
Well, during the course of our conversation, my husband mentioned that I had just under gone TKR surgery. Next thing we know, our neighbor is telling us about all the problems a neighbor of his, back in New Jersey, is having since the man had TKR two years ago. Believe me, I could have completed my own recovery quite well without hearing that horror story!
Besides ruining what was a lovely morning sharing coffee and bay watching with my spouse, that unthinking jerk left me so angry and upset that I came back in the house in tears.
Why can't people just keep their trap shut if they can't say something positive?
Thank you for allowing me to vent.
Anna
