1 pain is not an issue at this moment, it's probably a 2, several days ago it was a solid 8
I see
2 as for med's, I take a couple of Ibuprofen, extra strength probably twice a day, I have a high pain threshold I think.
You didn't answer the question which was " how much are you taking (in mg please) and how often?"
3 swelling is between slight and moderate but varies with physio
Okay
4 115-130/0 and 130. Right now, below 90 as because of pain, I can flex it more but only with pain.
What ever you do, do NOTHING that causes you pain. It only makes matters worse.
Plus your ROM is excellent and at 12-13 weeks you really don't need to fret.
You're there, you've made it to the Holy Grail!
5 I iced up until a couple of weeks ago as I was doing so well. I have a polar breg unit.
Okay
6 elevation is something I rarely seem to do, my fault,
Well, it's certainly not my fault!

But if you don't feel you want to do it, that's fine.
7 I live alone so I cook for myself, vacuum as req, I shop okay, walking is okay, no pain when walking, only in the non op knee as that is in need of replacement too.
that's okay. Can't put life on hold, can we?
My comments in
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stationary bike at home 20mins twice daily -
I suggest 10 mins once a day and none at all at the weekend!
shallow squats 2 sets of ten, hold for 3 sec -
no to squats of any kind! Dreadful exercise! Stop them
straight leg lift in chair with 5lb weight on ankle,2 sets of 10 twice a day -
another no - to weights! NEVER use weights. Stop them
Small roll under knee 5lb weight on ankle, lift lower 100 of those once a day -
see above. And 100 a day? are you crazy! Stop these altogether!
Heel and toe lifts, 3 sec on toes, 3 on heels, 20 of those twice a day -
these are also like to cause problems. Stop them!
Stretch by squatting with surgery leg leading then move forward to stretch quads. 5 times, 30 seconds each time, twice a day -
same again - stop them!
lunges 5 times, hold for 10 seconds.......twice a day -
same again
leg suspended under thigh 5lb weight on ankle 5 mins -
same again and never use weights!
They come out of the Canadian standard recovery guide after knee replacement -
I don't care if they came out of the Holy Bible! They are rubbish and bad karma!
I hate to whine to her about this, simple elective surgery but it's no less valid to me you know?
Well you know what? It's NOT 'just' a surgery, it's a major, life changing event and major MAJOR surgery that none of us (yes, including me!) could ever be adequately prepared for. So don't beat yourself up about it, my friend. You are totally and incredibly allowed all this!
I have total confidence in her, she is a professional, university degree in it, recommended to her by my surgeon.
None of those three things would endear me to such a person who would have you doing 100 weighted half leg lifts, especially on a patient who already has excellent ROM and actually doesn't need any exercising at all any more! For this is the truth of it.
I am paranoid about losing ROM, heard so many horror stories!
I've heard no-end of horror stories about the opposite. Read this
PT: the seriously grave consequences of doing too much of it.
I'd also recommend you read this too
BoneSmart philosophy for sensible post op therapy
I have done nothing in the way of working out since Monday and fear it may return if I start working it again.
Exactly so. And I can promise you it will. In spades!