Yes, I have read everything here thoroughly, as well as another 4 books about the surgery and rehab. Husband is just trying to follow what the PTs, nurses and doctor told us - mostly in conflict with advice here. So the issue is him believing everyone at the hospital as credible. I know he is tired and worried, he only wants what is best. I flat out told him last night I wasn't doing a darn thing. He was just nervous because the awful PT gave him that line about "losing my window" to gain my ROM back.
Oh, and the guess what else that little jerk PT said? I was lying in bed and he was doing some harsh calf stretch and he says, "yep, see your left leg is longer now, you are going to have problems" I was so mad! Both my legs were straight before surgery - OS didn't fix bow-leg or anything. And, my left knee was bent up a bit and I was likely crooked in bed. If it is longer, it might be by a hair - nothing he could see by just holding me feet and stretching! Why on earth would someone say that? Like I don't have enough to worry about!
In-home nurse will be here in a few and PT later today. I hope it is someone gentle....