GrannyC
post-grad
I am really at a loss for the right words as I’m sure nothing much will be very comforting at this point. I have been following your thread since I signed up on BS last spring before my surgery. It does appear that your new surgeon is at least listening to you and checking into all aspects of this. As devastating as it may seem now, I feel that they will get this all figured out and this will get resolved. You need to try and stay positive for your children as well as for yourself. Even though you can’t do physical things with them and play outside, you can spend lots of quality time with them inside. Most children enjoy playing games or even stirring up a batch of brownies from a box. They make a mess at times but they enjoy it and it makes special times together that don’t involve physical activity on your part. With the weather getting worse (raining today where I am in NY), it makes it easier to think of inside things to do.
Tomorrow is thanksgiving and I am sure you still have a lot to be thankful for despite all these setbacks. Happy Thanksgiving! Sending positive healing thoughts your way!!
@AMR1879 I should also add this. All these things are easy for me to say because I’m not in your shoes. However, it is meant to give a different viewpoint I think you could say and to try to point to some positives during this rough time. You sound like one tough lady so I am certain you will make it through all this and things will be better!
Tomorrow is thanksgiving and I am sure you still have a lot to be thankful for despite all these setbacks. Happy Thanksgiving! Sending positive healing thoughts your way!!

@AMR1879 I should also add this. All these things are easy for me to say because I’m not in your shoes. However, it is meant to give a different viewpoint I think you could say and to try to point to some positives during this rough time. You sound like one tough lady so I am certain you will make it through all this and things will be better!
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You have everyone here rooting for you!


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