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@Anne27 My knee makes a clicking sound now and then. It doesn't worry me because I believe it will eventually stop doing that once, as you said, all the surrounding tissues are healed and have fully grown into whatever voids there may be. I read somewhere on this forum that it often goes away or becomes less noticeable. I suppose there is a chance the clicking will be permanent but this early in the healing process it's just too common to worry about it, IMO.
What you said about your husband usually being outgoing and optimistic tells me he will be okay. He sounds like a nice guy dealing with a scary and painful situation. What he's dealing with right now, the healing process, must feel never-ending. But it will end and he will be so glad he's had this done. I can tell you that I am starting to see the improvement and I can't wait to be able to do the active things I'd been missing when my left knee held me back. But during the first weeks of this recovery I wondered if I'd made a huge mistake by having had this surgery. Lots of people go through those times of doubting. He will get back to the happy person you miss. Even though you may not be able to tell, I'll bet he's extremely grateful for you. At some point he'll probably tell you that. This difficult process has brought my husband and me closer than ever - an unexpected bonus! Take it one day at a time --- both of you.
What you said about your husband usually being outgoing and optimistic tells me he will be okay. He sounds like a nice guy dealing with a scary and painful situation. What he's dealing with right now, the healing process, must feel never-ending. But it will end and he will be so glad he's had this done. I can tell you that I am starting to see the improvement and I can't wait to be able to do the active things I'd been missing when my left knee held me back. But during the first weeks of this recovery I wondered if I'd made a huge mistake by having had this surgery. Lots of people go through those times of doubting. He will get back to the happy person you miss. Even though you may not be able to tell, I'll bet he's extremely grateful for you. At some point he'll probably tell you that. This difficult process has brought my husband and me closer than ever - an unexpected bonus! Take it one day at a time --- both of you.
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