So I followed everyone's "loving advice". It's now 8:15am day after Christmas, about to go get coffee and breakfast. Took 2 oxys at 11:15 pm, 2 more at 1:45a, then one at about 4:15a when my fluffy cat decided he was hungry. I sleep on my side, so I slept on the sofa (more support for my back) with my calmer orange kitty on my belly. I awake today in a much better mood, mentally and physically. As one (perhaps many of us in the same boat) who is used to taking pain meds when one is in pain, not to prevent pain, this is one of those milestones in the journey. Even though I rested at my destination, perhaps the exertion of the car ride - stairs, getting in and out of the car, and unfortunately a lower toilet at my friend's house, were too much for this post op body of mine. Mentally and emotionally I needed to be with people on Christmas (my roomie was with his gf); physically obviously another story. So today, after breakfast/coffee/meds, I will go back to the living room, turn on the TV, grab the remote, and surf. No visitors, no medical peeps today, so it is a do only what's necessary day.
Thanks all for your words. It was a bit scary last night; glad to have the support (as always).