Nana757
post-grad
That's exactly what happens to me. I was always the one who took care of everything for everyone. I have two daughters and one has taken my surgery with a grain of salt. Because I have done so well, she is thinking...oh...that wasn't so bad...mom can handle it. Of course, she doesn't fully understand exactly how major this surgery is or how traumatic it is on your body. All she sees is that I have come through it with flying colors and I'm good to go. While my other daughter is amazed, knowing the full impact this surgery has on your body and now has an increased respect for her mom. And, then, there is my DH. All he wants to do is spoil me, take care of me and protect me. He watched the video of the full operation and knows, in detail, what they did to my body. I wish you the best with your PT today and hope you have a family member going with you, so they can see first hand, what you are faced with.
United States
