Want2hike
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The wedding was beautiful and I am so happy that I was able to go. In total, I was out of the house for 4 hours. The wheelchair was an absolute must - I would have really struggled without it. All of the chairs were the standard white wood folding chairs. I find those uncomfortable on a good day.
The ceremony was outdoor on a golf course. We had to walk across grass (mostly level) to get to the ceremony. Husband pushed me in the wheelchair and parked me in the outside aisle of the back row. This gave me room to take my feet off of the foot rests and move my legs. I had to keep my legs constantly moving (ankle pumps, bending and straightening...) otherwise they started to ache.
The reception was at the same venue and started immediately after. We removed the chair at my place at the table and I sat in my wheelchair. The table had a bar under it that was about 10" off the ground. During the meal I rested my feet on that bar to elevate them a little. Had to move legs quite a bit and stand up and march in place a few time to keep the circulation going and stop muscle spasms. I took a pain pill about an hour earlier than scheduled, which allowed me to stay a bit longer. Made it through the toasts and cake cutting, then said my goodbyes.
Got home, changed clothes, then plopped on the bed to rest, ice, and elevate. Rested for about 2 hours and then got ready to go to bed for the night. Woke up this morning and legs are slightly achy (elevating and icing them right now) but don't seem too bad.
Overall, I'm happy with my decision to go and share the day with my friend, her family, and our mutual friends.
The ceremony was outdoor on a golf course. We had to walk across grass (mostly level) to get to the ceremony. Husband pushed me in the wheelchair and parked me in the outside aisle of the back row. This gave me room to take my feet off of the foot rests and move my legs. I had to keep my legs constantly moving (ankle pumps, bending and straightening...) otherwise they started to ache.
The reception was at the same venue and started immediately after. We removed the chair at my place at the table and I sat in my wheelchair. The table had a bar under it that was about 10" off the ground. During the meal I rested my feet on that bar to elevate them a little. Had to move legs quite a bit and stand up and march in place a few time to keep the circulation going and stop muscle spasms. I took a pain pill about an hour earlier than scheduled, which allowed me to stay a bit longer. Made it through the toasts and cake cutting, then said my goodbyes.
Got home, changed clothes, then plopped on the bed to rest, ice, and elevate. Rested for about 2 hours and then got ready to go to bed for the night. Woke up this morning and legs are slightly achy (elevating and icing them right now) but don't seem too bad.
Overall, I'm happy with my decision to go and share the day with my friend, her family, and our mutual friends.
United States