Hi
Abbylayla, Blue skies ahead....
I appreciate your response. I need to figure out how to change my tagline, as I am not living the nightmare anymore, I'm afraid I was at my wits end when I wrote that. There were days I cried almost the entire day and night from the pain but that is all water under the bridge. I'm 61 years old, this was hard for me. Some folks take to it easily, but for some of us it is a challenging journey. I'm so glad I did it.
Just so others (new people) know, it may seem like an eternity but the pain swill subside at some point and you will be happy again. Just came from the Surgeon's office, I'm happy to report he says I am doing quite well, my flex is 90 deg and extension is just short 5 degrees from straight. All things considered, not so sure about doing the right knee until I get amnesia from this experience
Power boaters are people too

, we love them as long as they don't hit our pokey-slow boats. I'm glad the page brought a little sunshine into people's lives. A dear friend (guy in the video) did this for me on her maiden voyage. If you couldn't tell I had a smile from ear to ear. I spent 6 months (thanks to my dear wife Sandy) just before the operation. Living in the bay on a mooring ball was everything and more that I have dreamt of for 30 years. I've read almost every adventure sailing book there is. Sometimes we have to remember those times to get through the rough ones is why I shared.
This board helped me through a most challenging time, probably the hardest thing I have ever done with my body. Thank you to everyone for your support. I will be making small cards up to put in my surgeon's office to steer new people to the page. Fear and anxiety are borne from lack of knowledge. All' ya'll (that plural for you non-texans) bridged that gap for me and really helped.
I have my therapy started (professionals-I winged it the first 2 weeks) and they are such wonderful people I am looking forward to this part of the journey, pain now pales in comparison to before the operation soooo.... I see blue skies ahead and I sincerely hope others can see them too.
Regards, Cap'n Ric