I've heard a few people talk about trying massage to help with pain, but I found it really hard to find a sports masseuse in our area with the skill to make a difference, that is, until now!

I went for a 90 minute massage yesterday with a woman who specializes in treating Fibromyalgia. I told her about my IT Band issue and asked if there was anything she could do to help me. She said she would try. For almost an hour she worked to release the tightness in my hips, my thighs, my calves, scar tissue around my knee. She massaged around the entire length of the IT Band. She moved my leg in a variety of positions to reach the band in a variety of ways. Many times it felt like heaven, while others felt like I was bruised.
The biggest difference today is that I am much looser. I am in less pain than I was yesterday, but the pain is still there. It will take awhile for this to go away but this is the first time, I've felt hopeful that the end is in sight. She also repeated what so many others have said; I'm still early in recovery. Healing is still taking place. Be patient and try not to let the pain overwhelm your thoughts. (sound familiar
@Raffs 
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I'm going back in 2 weeks for another massage. We'll work again on the leg. The following day I'll see the surgeon. At that time, we'll review the right knee and talk about how the pain in the left knee has increased and see if I can schedule that knee for mid-April.
For the first time in a long time, it feels like I'm moving in the right direction. Let's hope so.