@TrueNorth I Guess June 17 will be a memorable day for us for awhile. This is my second one, which is interesting because 8 weeks into the first one I very firmly said, “I ain’t doin’ this again”! Which is also interesting because it was about 6 years before the first one that my Doctor, during my annual check-up said, “This knee is really creakin’ and crackin’. You ready to replace it?” And of course I said something like, “Ain’t gonna happen”. Sort of shatters my illusion of control.
This is a brutal experience to be sure, and as I have stated, it was very low on my bucket list. It is said, don’t even think of comparing TKR recoveries of 2 different knees, even your own. I have a very different pattern of aches and shooting pains this time, with a higher static pain level. My home PT therapist explained that since I have Sciatica on the Right side, that could explain it. But there are consistent similarities as well; pain, stiffness, possibly sleeplessness, loss of appetite, constipation, and a tendency to become frustrated, discouraged, depressed, or even fearful. That’s where our Bonesmart traveling companions come in handy. Real handy!
I also draw strength from my now strong and pain-free Left knee, which 6 months ago was just like my Right one is now. Hopefully, you can draw hope and strength as well from my testimony as well as that of many others on this forum. But even now, sometimes in the back of my mind the question and doubt pops up, “Will I ever walk normally again?”.
Short-term recovery is 8 - 12 weeks. I characterized the first 8 weeks incrementally starting with 2 REALLY REALLY rotten weeks, incrementally improving to 2 miserable weeks because improvement during that time is gradual, often easily overlooked.
@donnag1108 encouraged us to look for and hang onto those “little victories”.
For me, one was 2 or 3 days ago when I realized I could raise my leg onto the bed without helping it any. Another was when I spontaneously stood up without reaching for my walker. But there will be setbacks as well, some from the natural course of events of this recovery, some from some of the dumb things we do during a moment of overconfidence (this one is a hazard for me, a by-product of my tendency toward impatience).
I don’t know if you are looking at a second one or not. If so, you will know when the time is right. For my second one, while I definitely dreaded it, there was also a background feeling of relief, that all would be OK. I survived the first one, and had a 98% chance of success with the second one, then it would all be behind me and I could look forward to once again enjoying the things I like. I am an outdoor person, and we have much to enjoy down here, but you have to be able to get to it.
We will be traveling pretty much side-by-side on this trip, it will be interesting. I wish you a the smoothest possible journey to a full recovery.