@Spongebob I get you are down, and frustrated, and this is a great place to express those feelings. Sometimes we need a place to vent.. That said, when you feel ready for some constructive feedback, have a look at following questions:
1) From your post on August 9, did you start a program with physio based on his feedback to improve hip flexor ROM / strength?
2) As suggested, did you make a list of questions and/or friend advocate to bring to your OS meeting? Did you mention the feedback from your physio to your OS? Overall agree with feedback that you have more work to do with OS to resolve outstanding questions.
3) Respectfully, a radiologist or second opinion OS should view the images you posted and ask them what they think, what it means for your recovery, physical therapy and outcome. From my research, the best way to observe/evaluate LL difference, pelvic tilt issues etc. is via CAT scan - three dimensional images v. two dimensional images (xray). And no have not had one done

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Finally on pain: seeing a pain management specialist might be helpful. To recover, you have to reframe your relationship with the pain you are feeling as a normal part of your life. If you do this, it won't overwhelm you. Like you and many others here, I regularly have issues with soft tissue discomfort at 9 months out. I suspect it will continue for a long time... but every day I wake up and when the feet hit the floor just move ahead. And easier said than done.. I get down at times too... but just a thought..