Roofmaster Hey, Roof! More questions from me (what a surprise, I know). You said you had more post-op pain from the second hip than the first, no? How long did it take it to subside with the second hip? I'm actually having quite a bit more pain in upper leg and thigh than I did with #1, and it seems like it is lastng longer. I know I got off VERY easy with #1 and had very little pain, but I can't help sitting around and wondering. I also have quite a bit of pain when first standing up on #2 hip. I know I am only on day 9 with #2, and I know I am overanxious. I am not in agony or anything, but it is significant pain, and significantly worse than #1 was. I guess I've lost my sense of perspective on this one. The doc did tell me this one was going to be harder than the first one because of more damage (don't know if he meant harder surgically for him, or harder recovery for me, or both).
How long before you were more or less pain free with #2 ( I don't mean after a lot of activity, but just after sitting a while, etc, and while walking with the walker).
I noticed that in one of your posts you mentioned the thought of suicide crossed your mind pror to the surgeries. I wanted to tell you It crossed mine, too, albeit briefly, in one of my worst spells of agony when pain meds wouldn't even touch that bone-on-bone pain. Unrelenting pain does terrible things to your mind, especially in the wee hours of the morning when you are alone. I would never have acted on the thought, but it was there, and it scared me that I was that close to the edge that such a thought would even occur to me. Like you, I am so thankful I chose to hold on and see it through, and I don't plan on wasting any of the good time that's in my future. This whole recovery time is a journey of gratitude for me, even if it has bumps and down days.
Peace and love to you, Roofmaster, and thank you for being my friend.