@Jockette Thanks for the info on muscle tightness, and it makes complete sense. I figure I couldn't be the only one suffering and wondering about those calves.
Today was my last In-home PT visit----while here she pulled a very small wedge out of her bag of tricks, just to see if I could stand at the counter and use the wedge for a tiny calf stretch. She could tell how much the calf was bugging me and wanted me to tell her if this was an extremely large/unusual amount of tightness for ME, knowing how much I stretch in daily life. I definitely felt it stretch, but there was very little range, telling her this is the worst it's EVER been from any of my 11 surgeries. She thinks I'll get more stretch with weight-bearing stretching and as the bruising goes away down the back of my leg---as it's still very extensive. We both think until I can get some sort of daily stretching for my legs/glutes/back to feel good and loose, I'm going to continue to have more discomfort around the knee----just my usual history, but on steroids!!
I KNOW this affects my range of motion too.
As for ROM, she was nice in leaving her "Aggressive PT who wants 90 degrees flexion and 0 extension" at the door. That's usually where she wants people at the 2 wk mark, but she was understanding in knowing a) I'm never typical, b) This recovery didn't start well because of the increased swelling/soreness with little to no activity, and c) she knows I'm going to advocate for myself not being pushed. She admitted she would normally push a little, but she was 100% respectful of me not wanting/allowing it and not thinking it would be beneficial. Personally, I think she was afraid SHE would set me back, and I'd end up telling my surgeon "I told you so!" She also seemed more open to people not all being the same, especially after our 3rd visit together. I like that my oddball body might just change the way some PTs think.
As for numbers, I'm at 78 flexion, +6 extension----I hadn't done a thing though, so I know the extension would have been better after some stretching/exercise. She thinks the muscle tightness is a huge part of the problem. It was 10 degrees more flexion than 5 days ago, so she said to count it as a victory. I start out-patient PT Tuesday of next week. I'm eager for the soft tissue work and stretching, just never get away from the nerves of having to discuss
"Don't force the knee and don't nag me about numbers."
I know many people have experienced it, but it sounds impossible to me that ANYONE can have this surgery and bend their leg easily days later. I just don't see how the human body can do it, though people keep having it happen.
Some days I wish there was a "Happy Bending Pill"---just for people like me.
I'm off to nap and plan the rest of my week. Looks like a friend is coming by tomorrow and then a VERY short dinner with the in-laws Thursday. They've seen me in my Oxycodone daze plenty of times from years ago and 20 yrs worth of surgery, so it's always a good laugh. I hope everyone else is having a good day.