Today is a better day. I'll try to answer the questions I remember when reading through all the posts.
Amazingly, the toilets at the hospital seemed lower than my "ADA right height" toilet I have at home. The ortho unit was recently redesigned with private rooms, but I think they forgot about the bathrooms! There wasn't much room around the toilet to maneuver my walker, either.
@JTH I had surgical glue. The PA said that after he looked at my hip scar, he was concerned about using glue, but I assured him that I'm not concerned about having beautiful knees- I'll just be excited to have functional ones!
@Shmi47 my toilet at home is higher than the ones at the hospital and easier to maneuver around. Both of my knees were equally bad, plus I had severely bowed legs, so I wanted both done so that I wouldn't screw something up in recovery by compensating with other movements.
@kneeper I will have a home health nurse and PT. I did not like the nurse they sent out for my hip, and have requested not to have her again. My hubby is a former paramedic and really good with trauma, dressing changes, etc., so I'm not worried about the nursing side. I am much more comfortable at home. One of the perks of leaving the hospital was not having to ring for assistance to get out of bed. They were really quick to respond, but I'm a super independent person (I'm sure as a toddler I said "me do it, me do it") and prefer doing things my way.
I am really glad I set up my area before leaving the house for surgery. I cut an Eggcrate mattress to fit my recliner, then covered it with a sheet and collected pillow and blankets to use. The recliner is in my bedroom about 10 feet from the bathroom door. I slept much better last night in the recliner, and was able to get to the bathroom much easier than at the hospital. I also dismantled the bedside commode and have the handles going around the toilet so i can use them to push up on.
My right leg is still difficult to lift; I use a flat handled cane with the flat part under the ball of my foot to lift and lower that leg. I have to wear TED hose (hate them) for three weeks. Amazingly, I have had NO swelling or drainage. I tried to add a picture, but I don't know how from the ipad and my brain is a bit fuzzy- I'll have to wait for my kids to teach me how!
Thanks for all your comments- time for a nap!