I’m saying this with love....I think the only thing you need to be worried about is your inability to take recovery from the trauma of this major surgery slow. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Don’t allow anyone else’s expectations for your recovery spur you on until you‘ve gained more strength and stability. That sharp pain is your body asking for change and that doesn’t mean more activity, it means stop / rest, you’re overdoing it.
At not even six weeks post op, your activity level should be roughly as shown below -
Weeks 6 and 7
Start taking car trips to the shops but keep them short and sweet at the start, no longer than 15-20 minutes. Take at least one 5 minute rest while you are out.
Activity: ironing, washing, meal prep but get someone else to clear up after, wash up but someone else clears the table, brings you the dirty dishes, dries and puts them away after, not you!!
Please do not allow your family’s activity level, nor pressure from them influence you. This is ALL ABOUT YOU. Give yourself the TLC and time your body needs to heal properly so you don’t end up with chronic pain issues.
That was a heaping dose of tough love and a free hug included.

I hope your pain eases soon allowing you to enjoy the weekend.