Wow, tm, sitting here in front of computer with watery eyes, just reading your story. I can not fathom of what you are even going through. I have been in the medical field over 25 years and seldom hear of doctors like this anymore, but I know there are the few. I KNOW you don't want to bring discourse and unpleasantness to your physician, but you must!
If you have to, contact your nurse case manager or the Patient Relations nurse at that hospital, and let them know whats going on and how you feel. THIS IS YOUR RECOVERY, not theirs.
By the way... I too have the lower shin pain, from what I've gathered on this website this is probably normal.
The more I read here on this site, the more I realize that I am the most important person in the world right now.
I also am having problems with pain, and pain medications. I thought I had explained this to my physician before surgery. It is fairly well under control, barring any set backs right now. Went to the follow up, and the physician said "well we be curtailing the pain meds here soon, so you'll need to start spacing out dosage times and dosage amounts." I said, "well when did they take you of off pain meds after your TKR?" I don't think so. He just laughed patted me on the shoulder, and said OK. I am now off of the percoset and taking 15mg lortab-narco every 4 hours, whether I need it or not, and I will continue to do so for the next couple days, I will wean myself off the meds, not let the physician do it for me. At this present time I need it, and that's all there is to it, hardly is there a moment when I don't need it - that's just me.
I truly hope things get better for you and I'll be pulling for ya, I'm off to PT right now!