Re: Can't do side legs lifts and clamshells
I had a hard time doing them lying on my side too. My surgeon's written guidelines stated he wanted patients to be working on them at 2 weeks!!! There was no way I was able to do them at that point. But, looking back, I'm glad he at least planted the seed for me to start working on them at an early stage.
First I did leg raises to the side standing and also while lying on my back in bed. Then I started doing the clamshell exercise kind of bracing my feet together to get a lift at the knees, which was very difficult at first too--I could only raise about an inch at first. I just kept at it day after day. By week 3 I was able to do a decent clamshell and a couple of inches of a true side lying leg raise.
Then it was like everything really came together around week 4 and all the sudden I could do a side lying leg raise at least a foot or so without too much trouble. But I never worked myself to the pain level you are at, though. I don't think you should either.
Granted, we have to push ourselves a little, but not so much that it's you are feeling that much pain. Things will come--you just have to plug along and work your way up to it. If your leg isn't ready to do it the way your PT wants, it's just not ready. Work in that direction with the ideas people have posted so far. Do what you can and that will have to be good enough. One day you will be able to do it.
About the limping, I did notice that my leg strength when walking and therefore the limp did improve a lot after I started being able to do the lying side leg raises. So, I think the PT is correct with that philosophy. He or she might be just pushing too hard to get you there. One thing I learned by rehabbing my hip was that strength and flexibility would always come along as long as I kept trying exercises, even if it seemed like it was taking forever to improve--a half inch lift turns into a 1 inch lift ... then a 2 inch lift, etc. Takes time.
Dorothy