Sounds like you are doing really well leeja. I do relate to your feelings of the delight in being home. Sounds like you customised your recovery space before you went in so that you had things all set up when you came back. I did the same except for bed, and it is so good to have your own comfy space with all you need and want around you. I am so lucky, that hubby was able to take a week off work to look after me, and apart from one or two expressions of frustration on his part, for which he has apologised, that has worked out really well. Can't believe what yours said about trading the driving, for the surgery, hard to believe that he could be serious!! But then some of the things that mine says when he is so inclined astonishes me too!
Love my recliner and huge cushion I have to get my legs right up. This is so comfortable and helps so much! I say a little thank you to my late mother in law for it!
Love the picture you paint of your sitting in your recliner looking out at the squirrels and trees through all your windows sounds just blissful and so peaceful. I live in the country too but not so rural as you, in a small market town, on the edge of the north York moors.. My chair is in my living room window, and our street is a dead end, so quiet, and it backs onto the grounds o

f the local secondary (high) school. So I watch the kids going to and from school 4 times a day, and I like that..
Don't know about your hubby not having much to do for you. Getting your meals and snacks is something! And mine giving me a hand to stand up is a big help! We also have stairs in our house, I while I find it ok going up stairs, I still need supervision to come down, which is much more uncomfortable. Do hope he is able to have some time off to help you, or you will have some other support. Just managing that puppy of yours must be a handful!
Totally agree with you about this site, it, and everyone onit, is being a great help to me!

take care
