Lisa,
Just found your threads. I'm just a little ahead of you, having had surgery on the 14th.
I'm glad you have your Dad with you over the weekend. Next week, don't forget your friends at church. You will need their help. I promise you (I'm a Pastor) they will not be burdened by you. If someone asked to help, make use of them. They asked to help, ... well, because the have the gift of helps. They feel great pleasure and satisfaction in helping. They know they serve God by helping those in need.
Now, being on the same fence as yourself, I understand how it feels to ask someone for help. I'd rather do it for myself :grin: . But when you need help, you need help. Let me suggest you ask these church friends to come by for Lunch and Dinner to help with meals. They probably will bring food over anyway. While they are over, they will ask if there is anything else they can do. Make use of this offer, only if you need. But, please allow them to serve Jesus by serving you. It is a win-win.
I'll be praying that the pain med issue is resolved. I agree with others, you did not get enough. Remember to use ice, AS MUCH AS YOU CAN STAND! Ice is the next best pain reliever after the meds.
And be careful. Take it slow and steady. If your head feels light - sit down, better, ... lay down. Follow the mantra. I'm praying for you.