***DAY 32 Update, Plus the 1st Post-op Appointment***
Stressful Stuff
1) The obvious: there was no blame, guilt or shaming about me still having a very swollen knee at 4 1/2 weeks post-op. My surgeon was pleased with my progress, knowing my history.
2) His PA came in 1st to get the basics out of the way. She looked at my extension/flexion, listened well, verified I'm bending to at least 90 degrees with no force needed. I reminded her I'd have bent more but it had been an hour of back/forth across 2 waiting rooms because of a goof-up in X-Ray, resulting in musical chairs, a lot of do-overs, me losing my appointment time (when we showed up early), then finally getting into the Dr's room.
3) She DID ask about PT, if I had gone yet, when I was going and where. I politely shut her down. She felt the need to mention "
We just don't want to take any chances, and no one wants a manipulation." I was nice. I told her I know because I've had one. I
politely told her I didn't want to go to PT because it'd be 4-6 wks of guilt trips, shaming, nagging, pushing, prodding, assuming, negotiating, and
STRESS of them telling me I should be at<this> number by <this> week, and let's face it, that's not anatomically possible for me. She went quiet.....then said I could just talk about it with Dr. N when he came in. I'm pretty sure she was glad to hand me off by then and get out of the awkward airspace.
The Good Stuff
4) Dr. N came in, we talked, he had me walk across the room, do the usual bending/straitening, etc. He was pleased. We talked about the swelling, and he agreed to prescribe the same anti-inflammatory from 2019. He prefers steroids first, but I told him the 2 wks of steroids in weeks 2-4 didn't help at all. He agreed that if the anti-inflammatory worked that well once, it likely would again. I completely forgot to ask about my BP medication (the diuretic), and they don't take vitals at this office for post-op appointments. I didn't even think about it until I was in the car later. I plan on asking my primary about it after I take some BP readings at home, as I may need something adjusted anyway.
5) We talked basic surgery stuff---apparently this knee cap has no button. I learned that most surgeons prefer to leave the knee cap alone if possible. I had perfect tracking and a great spacing/groove behind it. The idea is if one ever falls on their knee, it's VERY easy to break a kneecap that has the button behind it. This is because it's only half as thick as before---they have to shave it down during TKR surgery to place the button, which makes the kneecap 1/2 as thick, thus MUCH more likely to crack/break if you fall on it. No button means a full-thickness kneecap remains, with a MUCH reduced risk of breaking it down the road. He said if you think a TKR is painful, try surgery/recovery after a broken kneecap.

It was a fascinating conversation though.
6) I also have a different brand/model of cementless implant (AKA press-fit) in this knee. It's more modern with a much shorter shaft going down into my lower leg. I wonder if that's why this has been less painful. This shaft is
easily an inch or more shorter.
7) I saved the best for last: No one tried to force me to go to PT. I'm sure the PA prepared him before he entered the room, but he didn't argue or try to talk me into it. I brought it up first and directly said I don't want to go. I was so proud of myself for being direct, advocating for myself, non-confrontational-------just direct and to the point, saying I know what to do, and that I don't fit into their box. He just asked me to do my own, as I obviously had the knowledge. I told him I had no problem coming back in 6 weeks to show him I didn't need formal PT. He
DID mention riding my own stationary bike for 5-10 minutes,
FIVE TIMES A DAY.
I said sure, knowing I won't. My other TKR surgeon had said more than once that with my history, that would be a guaranteed recipe for rebound swelling & slowed recovery. If 5-10 minutes a day, ONCE A DAY, was good enough for that first fibrotic knee, then it's good enough for this "no scar tissue history" knee. I'll do what I think is necessary and best.
We then drove towards home, ate at my favorite deli (my first BLT in 5 weeks), had my favorite sweet tea, and came home for a nap. I'm not going to lie---the knee hurts, along with the rest of me. I had to take the Oxy 5 this afternoon and tonight.
However----my mind is at peace. I want to cry with the relief and knowledge that I'm in charge of my body this time. I definitely feel like a weight has lifted, as I'd been dreading this appointment for weeks. I know I blew it out of proportion, but that's just the way I'm wired. My husband took it in stride, as usual.
Thanks to everyone for putting up with my rambles, my moods, my deep thoughts and sleepless nights. You guys are the best. I'm off to read up on the rest of the gang.
