TKR Lavender's getting a new left knee for Christmas

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Hi @marmora Your village sounds really nice and how nice it is to shop or go out to eat where you know people working there. We moved into our townhouse the spring of 1990. The people who manage our townhouses are very family oriented lots of green space areas not too crowded and they encourage the people who live here to plant their gardens and make their space homey lots of room and our one neighbor is now retired and has a degree in horticulture and has set up so many large gardens on his own all around the area planted lots of trees and said he put the magnolia tree which has yellow flowers just past where our car sits in the parking lot to give us something pretty to look at when it is blooming as we get out of our car. Our town homes were built by the people who still manage them they wanted a complete community place where the kids could go to school close to home and built a large shopping mall up the street for shopping lots of things to do no far from where we live so many years ago now over 40 years ago. This year as we were told as it marks our 25 years living here we are invited to a dinner in honor of the years we have lived here and will be held at the Holiday Inn up the street from us and we will join others who have been part of this community for 25 years or more. I was told it will now be an annual invitation for us to meet and have a nice dinner all paid for together . We will also receive a cash amount every so many years as a thank you for being with them for so long not sure think it is either every year or every so many years but such a nice gesture they would do this in their appreciation.

My husband and I worked in the in the mall before the opening day and started there helping to get it ready before it opened and then until the store was sold and returned to the states we has worked there for 25 years. Loved that enviroment made many friends who we still see now and very family oriented hard working but very rewarding enjoyed our jobs . I ran the toy department for all but two of those years when I decided to take a job in the office but always loved seeing the little kids who came in to shop and helping with the gifts their families looked at for them.

Twenty three Christmas seasons and my department was a very busy one had top sales for the entire country many weeks throughout Christmas and year round and lots of wonderful loyal customers who became our friends. Reports that our stores were sold and the company that bought them asked that we all go through interviews to determine who they would keep and both my husband and I were given jobs kept our seniority but lost pay but thankful to have a job. We worked for them for another 14 years and during this time were offered a chance to make a little more money so changed to the night shift job as all job formats were changing and chance to do what we loved during the day at night missed the people though but needed to do what we could to help even out the money loss for all after the buy out.

During that time I was offered a job as an assistant supervisor a little more money and it was because of the night job we were able to help my parents with the hospital needs and visit my Mom during the mornings when she was put in the rehab place and when we normally would have been sleeping taking care to see my Dad was alright. A year later all of the stores all across Canada were sold and we were given a severence pay as the new company was not ready to open for another year.

We did not return to another job as so many family issues and our help was needed funny how things work out this was the only way that I could have had a chance to help my parents and then have my knee replaced. And now the next surgery this change was good for my husband he had been very sick the year my parents were and in the hospital many times and very serious so far so good along our last few years and so thankful to have had the time to spend with my Dad before he died and help my Mom with her needs. The jobs paid enough to manage on sometimes money is not the total answer but your happiness with what you do with it. But that does not mean I would not be willing to try if won the lottery to live on a little more but happy even so very much.

Sometime you wonder why things go the way they do but they have a reason for doing this. I am not sure how we could have fit it all in if not for the night shift and if the store had not closed my knee would still be waiting and my chance to be with my Dad when he needed our time would not have happened as easily. Hoping we can manage for a while longer this way my husband said no matter what he will not see me working again we will manage

The fast pace of nights and the need to help with what needed done to keep us from getting behind meant I had to use some of the power equipment and this helped cause the reason for the damage to my knees.

Damage built up over years of things that happened at work and some of the equipment I needed to use with the new company and a tough supervisor on my night job high rate of people quitting
on the supervisors shift not on mine tried to keep calm and people respected that anything they did I was doing the same with them I felt I needed to help . It was heavy work I had and some falls during this time my husband had a serious accident and fractured his wrist the surgeon was not sure if he would ever use it again but my husband was determined he would and now does pretty good with what he needs to do with it. Counting my blessings to have such a loving caring kind husband who would do me no harm and gives me so much love and care I am very lucky and thankful for it very patient never gets really angry pretty easy going man. Hoping you are doing well and wishing all of the very best and one more day till the weekend. Holly
 
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Today we went to pick up a few clamps for my cross stitch frames and then so nice to have a 50 percent off coupon from the newspaper to cut the price a little lower. Off to the park sun shining clouds crossing kept shading it but so pretty. Hard to feed the geese so many seagulls but they are hungry to so found the only way to give the geese bread to was to offer it out of my hand they are quite careful about how they take it from you not thinking they should be fed this way but only way they could have their share a little easier.

Off to the grocery store wearing the sweater I was given for Valentines day in a kit chunky wool baby pink and eyelet cables pretty pattern that I knit last spring my husband it for me to make very warm and I made it a lady complimented me on the way it looked so cozy and actually it would be almost warm enough to wear in the snowy weather but the pattern is made with only one large button to close part way down.

We thought we would buy a small turkey just to have turkey of our own to have for suppers and so we found a really good turkey 12 pounds really nice only 19.00. Well she is now in the oven all washed and in her pan but forgot to fasten the legs together so they have decided to stay spread out looks like she is ready to hug something to hard to pull back together so she will be alright this way. Smells so good almost half done and going to have the turkey for supper tonight. It smells so good and knowing we will have some left over for other meals and what a great deal for the money. I love turkey and so does my husband so looking forward to having some tonight. Holly
 
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@lavender
The day has finally arrived for us :yahoo:Let me be the first to say ;
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to us....October 11 is a special day :friends:I raked all
Day to prepare my yard for Fall Mums & cornstalks, Pumpkins. Now, I find it
Will be raining all day :sad: I will decorate Sunday instead. I will be going out to
Eat with my husband, all my kids are working.
Your turkey sounds delicious, I can almost smell it :heehee: Do you have anything planned
For your special day ?
Enjoy your Birthday & many more :loveshwr:
Love,
Diana :flwrysmile:
 
Hi @Diana @new knee in June Just arriving home and now to wish you a wonderful birthday to. So neat we share the same birthday and what a lovely date to be born on for both of us. Hope you are having a wonderful day to my day has been so nice and so happy. Your yard sounds nice love the fall mums are so pretty and cornstalks look so nice with the fall colors hope you are not having any rain and if so hope it stops quick.

Today my husband woke me up early sitting in bed about 6 am and then he started to sing Happy Birthday to me. Then he brought me some things he had wrapped for my birthday one is a cross stitch pattern and the floss and stuff to make it with just need to pick out some linen from my supplies and then all ready to go. She is called the October fairy and so pretty all whispy flowers around and so looking forward to starting her. Then a movie called I will see you in my dreams with Doris Day and Danny Thomas and will watch this probably after supper. I can't eat regular chocolates so he found a package at a new store in our mall called Purdys pecans and stuff that are no sugar added they look so good have resisted so far but maybe later and a pair of lavender earrings . I told him he spoils me too much stuff he thinks it is just right.

We went to our favorite place in the town nearby Mennonite town and the food at the restaurant is so good. Today being my birthday is today my buffet breakfast was free any meal you chose is free of charge. Just as we were almost finished the staff came up to our booth with a muffin and a candle lit and they started to sing happy birthday to me. My husband said that our friend the owner winked at him before they started to let him know they were planning something. I started to cry a little so touched they are so nice there and made me feel so nice sometimes you need those things very important it meant alot to me. I thanked them all and told the owner of the restaurant who was singing with them how much the kindness shown by the friends we have made there has meant to both of us how much we look forward to spending time in the family atmosphere they have shown both of us. As we were leaving the restaurant today they presented me with an envelope which contained 5.00 coupon as well to use another day and a card that said happy birthday.

I have my husband who is wonderful and my brother Greg we are so close he is very caring to and he is wonderful and we are so much alike the way we think he has stood by me through all that has happened and I am so blessed. We are both so much like my Dad who wanted his family to stay close and care about one another it was very important to him that we all got along and until he died we all did.

Today the weather is just beautiful a little cool but the sun is shining and the leaves look all sparkly as we had a thick frost last night roofs are white and on our ride to have breakfast this morning the fields were covered in a heavy mist the sun was shining so bright that I found it hard driving with the reflection in the side mirrors on our car thought it was bright headlights. The sun was really strong almost a pinkish color shading around the clouds where the sun was trying to shine through in some spots. When sitting in our park so pretty sun shining on the water and the water was running a little faster on the river. Thinking maybe we will one day check into the cost of having a bench put in our park a memory bench with a plaque below with our names and a little saying to say one day we were here and how much the park has meant to both of us. Some people have memory trees planted my Gram had an oak tree planted along the other side of the river when my Grampa died and the plaque she had placed there had both of their names and a saying that life is precious make your time each day count. It was planted in 1979 just before our wedding and has grown tall and such a lovely tree.

:flwrysmile::flwrysmile: Many of the benches that line the edge of the river have been placed by members of families or peoples friends as memory keepers another bench platform has been poured and just waiting for the bench to be placed on it and wondering if it has a memory plaque coming with it.

Coming home after a walk in our park saw that my brother had called and was coming over to bring me a card and have a visit with us so love seeing him we have so much to talk about and he is very special to me and do not know what I would do if anything happened to him or my husband they are the best.

The card he brought for me when opened plays " What I like about you" think that is the name or a line from the song then felt like I would cry again.

My husband has made plans to go for supper to I did not know as I picked going for breakfast not realizing we would do both so more surprises how much I have to be thankful for. In my brothers card there are lottery tickets so going to work on scratching them and my husbands card also had tickets in it so going to have a look at both sets.

Talked to my brother telling him about my surgery date he has said that when we find out the time to go and come home date he will make arrangements at work to take some time off to help getting us to and from the hospital. He helped out lots last time my husband does not drive so it makes a lot of running around for him he says he like doing it whatever is needed but Greg will be there with us and my husband likes him very much to.

My brother said he thinks they would like to bring me a Christmas supper to the hospital if I am there for Christmas not sure how that works hoping to be home and has asked my husband for Christmas supper if I am still in the hospital he has two wonderful daughters that have turned out so lovely nice people so proud they are our family. Wishing you a wonderful day to Diana and so nice we share the same birthday. Happy Birthday to you Diana.:spin::spin::roseshwr:
Holly
 
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Hi @Pumpkln thanks for the kind birthday wishes and what a lovely birthday I am having today. Hope you are having a nice weekend and the weather is nice for you Holly
 
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[Bonesmart.org] Lavender's getting a new left knee for Christmas
Sounds like you are having a great birthday so far! I hope your whole day goes wonderfully!
 
Hi @tiredwife Thank you for your nice wishes and the flowers are really lovely and thanks. Nice day so great to see my brother to he works and on his time off does body work on cars in the shop he built in his yard he lives in the country. He had lots to do today trying to finish off a guys car and wanted to make sure he had a visit with us his birthday is on the 18th this month and so much enjoy the time he and my husband and I get together we are a lot alike.

My husband has made plans for supper and not sure where we are going think it might be East Side Mario's not sure. I have had a really nice day and now watching Harry Potter then off to supper. Tomorrow not going to eat much but the turkey we cooked yesterday was really nice and probably left over turkey for supper on Sunday then eating again for Thanksgiving supper at my brothers and then will have to slow down with food but it was really good. The house still smells a little like turkey so good and what a nice day this has been won some money on the tickets my husband and my brother gave me and having my husband check to see if I did alright with the scratching found I won a little more nice idea for a gift never know what you will find. Hoping you have a great weekend and the weather stays nice for you. Holly
 
@lavender Have a great dinner! I win some on scratchers once in a while. We don't get them that often.
We have Turkey roll (white meat) for Thanksgiving. Last year Steve soaked the roll in brine and it turned out really good and moist.
 
Hi @tiredwife We had such a nice time yesterday and last night we went to have our supper at East Side Marios. Our waitress was really good and kept bringing bread and soup and salad did not have to ask for anything she kept us well taken care of . We both ordered Chicken Parmesan and then I had caesar salad my husband likes their Italian Wedding soup and then the bread so much food had enough to bring home some so can have it again for another meal. We often just have water with our meals now as milk has sugar so she kept bringing us water. We have not been to East side Mario's for a while and this experience was one of the best we have remembered.

Such a nice day and seeing my brother made it even nicer time to talk. The sun is shining today putting in a load of laundry and then go to have a walk in our park need to go walking after all of yesterdays eating and then for supper turkey and corn on the cob that we bought from the farmers market we go to. Your turkey roll is such a good idea no waste and remembering that my Mom cooked a turkey roll one Christmas and it had stuffing in it and how great an idea that is. Hope you have a great day and your weather is nice. Holly
 
@lavender what a beautiful way to spend your birthday, Happy you got to see your brother, and your husband did a superb for your birthday, I think I would love that park of yours. I just love your readings Have a nice Sunday and I think I smelled that turkey all the way here. Make me hungry, lol
 
Hi @madinana I love your new avatar so cute. I love your new avatar to @tiredwife so in season for the upcoming Halloween festivities.

It was so nice yesterday and the weather was beautiful cool but so pretty the leaves are turning now not as fast as last years leaves which by this time last fall had fallen and so many trees were already bare. Love the way they look when the sun shines on them all sparkly so pretty. Fall and spring have always been the favorite seasons for me spring bringing to life all of the things that had been asleep during the cold winter months wake up and then in the fall they slow down and go back to sleep but the air is crisp and fresh and the colors are amazing.

My husband and I have always loved having time together and during the working years this was not always so easy trips to our park were not that often during the years without a car as it is on the other side of our city but still used to visit it on the bus maybe this is why it means so much to us now. My husband asked me to marry him in this beautiful park one day after going to the movies and driving to our park which we did all the time with a car and memories of the spot where the Vintage carousel now stands is where my husband asked me special places in our park memories we made there. Our park was the place we went to sit and think the year my Gram died loved her so much she was wonderful and went to have a few quiet moments thinking about her.
As a little girl growing up the park was a favorite place for all of the kids rode our bikes to get there closer to where I grew up and just about 15 minutes from home . At that time we could swim in the water stand under the waterfalls and sit along the other water fall that would send us sliding down into the river . Realizing one put a few holes the bottom of my almost new bathing suit one day and wondering what I could do to explain that when I went home the carefree days of being a kid.

Many we have met in our park some we did not know but a few we do now and familiar enough now to sit with and talk we have met some nice people walking dogs or small kids and others we meet have been friends for many years lots of people go here to enjoy the tranquil beauty of the things it offers.

Hope they never build along this river hope it never changes people need places like this to relax and carefree forget their stresses and experience the wonders of nature it offers simple pleasures other then the rides all frees of cost and so much room for kids to run pathways and water the bridge that is only for walking on and joins the two sides of the riverbanks together.

When I was small people used to skate on the river dams were closed and water lower someone had a stand with hot dogs and hot chocolate and people would go in the cold and skate but cozy my Dads Mom my Gramma lived in her house along the far end of the river which crosses our city and branches off into another river as well and we would go skating on the river at her part of the river to. She could make anything either by cooking or baking it or sewing and knitting it think I got my love of making things from her she would have loved to know that someone picked up on her love of creating things she was amazing and loved her to.

Always had something nice to make for you when you came in from the snow and remembering the smell of her house always had something cooking and her bread and buns and cookies she could make anything. When she died my Dad brought me her sewing machine she had asked that it be given to me from her and so many things that were sewed on this machine it came in a wooden case with a little key and vintage singer. Very precious to have from her.

Nice that next week is going to have less appointments only one for my husband on Monday and then no more till the following week. Hoping to get a few things caught up at home and hope to have some nice weather for a chance to go for some more walks.

Enjoying my cross stitching and the pattern I am working on now is almost half done. She is called the lady of the mist and is sitting in a garden surrounded by vines with moss roses her face is lovely very gently and smiling looking at the sun her dress is designed with tiny seed beeds and she is going to be absolutely beautiful when finished. She will be 19 1/2 inches by 15. inches so might see if too large for my frames if my cross stitch friend would frame this one and put it in her store for display for the time period and then it will be returned to me .She has asked if I would lend her a few if framed for her displays so maybe take her offer. Hope your have a great day and having the turkey for supper it was a good price we were so surprised compared to the price of the other turkeys and so so good. Holly
 
Hi @madinana remembering you are having surgery soon when is your date . Remembering you said but forgot know it is not far off and wishing you the very best with all and knowing it will all turn out fine. Best wishes for all of the best Holly
 
@lavender Sounds like a very wonderful day! Your park is a very special place! Such memories! Being military we moved so much that all our memories are pretty much scattered around. Mostly in or minds and photos. I think we are getting rain again today, hope we still get our walk in. You take care and have another wonderful day!
 
Today is absolutely beautiful some people are even wearing shorts wish I had of know it was that nice I would have worn mine to. Fed the ducks and geese and seagulls and then went for a walk down to the next bench as it was sunny there and sits under a beautiful tree turning color bright orange and yellow. Almost like a umbrella shape above us and as we were sitting so many leaves one at a time we falling funny how fast they travel when they leave their trees like they are flying today the sky was so blue and no clouds at all.

We walked further down the river to sit on the bench by the waterfalls and noticing a man coming up from the bridge with a Harley Davidson bag full of food and was feeding the sea gulls and geese. He was older and had a felt hat with a Harley Davidson crest on it so when he came over to explain he was feeding them dog food I asked him if he rode a motorcycle noticing his clothing . He told me that he was 77 years old and the food was from his puppy who had died that summer and asked what happened he said she was hit by a car just a baby and he told me he had moments when he could not hold back the tears he missed her so much. His wife had just recently died of cancer along with a son at the same time and he felt alone.

He expressed his love of this beautiful park and how it has helped him have some moments to enjoy being in the lovely surroundings time to put his worries out of his mind for a little while and I told him we loved it too . He owns a Harley motorcycle a newer model then my Dads was is now considered vintage built in 1969 but such a nice motorcycle the mans motorcycle is more of a sport model and with the cost of insuring motorcycles now it was put away for a while just too expensive to put on the road. I told him about my Dad and his Harley and how after years of driving one as a young man he sold his to use the money to take care of the family he was waiting to raise and help put the down payment of their house.

The man expressed how much he loved animals and we shared how much we like them. How animals do not judge and their love is unconditional he said the park has gave him a release for his sorrow and that this was his second trip on foot to the park to share his food with them.

I told him to get whatever enjoyment he would wish for now hoping he could find a way to once again spend some time riding the motorcycle and told him that after my Dad chose not to drive after the age of 80 he missed the time going out on his. Don't wait. My Dad bought this motorcycle with encouragement from my Mom the year that I started working full time at the store it was something he had looked at in a for sale ad and took some convincing to get him to buy it as his first thought was all of us and did not buy things for himself that would have given something extra to someone else.

He was really nice and someone else who find this wonderful park a very special important place to visit. Holly
 
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@lavender Hubby rode a Harley til he hit a deer with it and then we bought it back from the insurance and made a custom built out of it. He had to quit riding when his knees went bad, but we are hanging on to it. A retirement project for later. We went on our walk today too. Just enough chill to the air to feel good. Stopped by the store on the way home and it started raining again. Think we are going to have a lot of snow this winter if all this rain is any indication. Felt so sorry for the man and his losses! The older we get the more people we know die. It is one of the worse parts of getting older.
 
Happy Birthday (a bit late) Holly, @lavender,

I haven't been on since early Friday, so only catching up now. Had friends staying over, while my husband was away.

I enjoyed reading about your birthday and evening out to Mario's. Your husband sounds a lovely and gentle man and you are indeed lucky and blessed.

Take care and thinking of you,
Cathie
 
Hi @tiredwife It is a wonder that your husband did not get hurt when his motorcycle and the deer collided . Hope your husband was alright after the accident. My Dad like to polish the chrome on his motorcycle and clean it up when he no longer rode it. The brother that I saw yesterday also has a Harley that he bought a few years ago and when my died my brother inherited my Dads motorcycle know that my Dad would be pleased to see it where it would be cared for and will get a chance to be rode again. Happy to see Greg has his bike as he is very appreciative of how much it meant to my Dad and has restored it the condition that it was in when my Dad was able to take care of it.

We have had a lot of rain this year to and wondering if that might also be a sign of a very snowy winter. So true that as we get older the people who we know are also getting older and so hard to see anything happen to them. Weather tomorrow is supposed to be rainy hope it stays dry but the past few days have been really nice so we have been lucky. Have a great week and hope you do not have any more rain for a little while Holly
 
Hi @marmora It is very nice that you had time with your friends and hope you enjoyed your time together. Hope you enjoyed your time and the nice food you were eating. I had such a nice birthday it was very touching when the staff sang and brought me a muffin with a candle and made me feel so nice. We love going to this restaurant as the people there are very nice and a family atmosphere very warm and inviting. I will miss not going when I have to take a break from driving as it is somewhere that along with our park that is very special to both of us very reasonable prices and a nice selection of things to chose on their buffets all home cooked and so so good.

My husband is great and how lucky to have found someone like him. He is wonderful. His birthday will be on the 14th of December so going to start having a look around early. We both love movies and know there are some that he would like to see again and I always buy him a gift card from the popcorn booth in our mall Kernels as he love the ranch popcorn they make.

Time is going fast almost 3 months since I was placed on the waiting list and now just a few weeks more then 2 months left till surgery so have to get things going. Hope you are having a nice weekend and tomorrow in Canada is Thanksgiving so having supper at my brothers tomorrow night it will be nice to see my nieces and my brother and sister in law and her Mom comes to so really like seeing and talking to her to . Wishing you a great week. Holly
 
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