Hi Coachie! (big hug),
I hear you on the nerve drugs. If the EMG didn't show nerve damage, then why take meds for nerve pain. You ARE in control. So....stop taking the Cymbalta. As for depression, I've been on about everything. The ONLY depression med that worked for me is Lexapro. I have taken it for 3 years, and for the most part, no side effects. Let's concentrate on the depression for right now. You've got to get something that works for you.
I was (I'll explain in a minute) taking 20mg of lexapro per day. I stopped taking it a month ago so that I could go on this new drug Amitriptolyn. I've been on that for a week. Today, I've decided to stop it. This is why: first, it's GREAT for sleeping. That's it. Does nothing for the pain. Yeah...I know you have to take it for a few weeks to get it "into your system", but this is NOT a good drug for me. This is the second day that I've woken up and feeling like a caged PITBULL! I wanna hit something, scream at anybody and I have no patience with anything or anybody. This is NOT good!!!! I feel like I'm running a race...standing or sitting still. I feel like my blood is boiling...literally. I'm doing everything I can to supress these feelings, and finally...just told my hubby that he better watch out cause I'm gonna bite! This is NOT me. So....I'm done with the "A" drug. Now I've got to wait a few days before re-starting my Lexapro. I love Lexapro!

I think you should see if you can give it a try. I can't remember all the other anti-depressants they put me on, but I tried Paxil, Cymbalta, Zoloft (nasty!) and Prozac. The Lexapro helps me deal with every day stress, my mood and thinking, etc. and it's great for those days before your period if you get "moody".
I've never heard of the pain doctor you mentioned, nor the Maine Rehab Outpatient Center. If you are going to see a pain specialist, I would think your PCP would refer you to a pain specialist.
I'm gonna throw this out there, seeing your are really having a bad day and are at wits end with all of this.
After reading your posts above, I'd be ticked. In my opinion, I think you should do all your talking with Dr. Walsh. He can get you into a pain specialist. It sounds like your PCP doesn't have a clue...I'm sorry to say that, but I'm really questioning this referral. Tell Dr. Walsh (or your PCP if they will listen) that you want OFF the Cymbalta, and you would like to try the Lexapro. Then, tell Dr. Walsh that you have had it. Be blunt. Be direct. If he cannot help you, then you need a referral to Boston. NOT the Lahey Clinic. You are not in a good place right now. Tell him that. Be aggressive. Be a PITBULL!!!!! You are coming up on a year, and SOMEBODY should be willing to look at you and try to help. There is obviously something wrong. Demand a CT scan or MRI. Something! These people have GOT to know that living this way is NOT acceptable, and waiting 2-3 months is not an option.
Have you written the letter to Dr. Kelly and/or OA of Portland yet?