This is an interesting thread. Beachgal you are 2 days ahead of me. I feel I may have the guts for a shower today but may revert to the sink hair wash and wet wipes yet again. We have no walk-in shower and the bathtub is a deep soaker style so one heck of a climb over the edge. I have a bath bench from my broken leg but can't figure out how to use it. With the leg, I kept it poked out into the bathroom with the rest of me behind the shower curtain but of course can't angle my hip like that. Both my leg & hip were fall accidents close together and when I was learning to crutch after breaking my knee I found myself sunnyside up in the front garden twice and the bathroom once so a little traumatized and nervous to say the least. I love the term "kibbles & bits" Muckingabout but that is the name our family has given nibble dinners of cheese & crackers, dips, etc, so puts my head in a weird place, lol! I have noticed several of you ladies commenting on how wonderful your husbands are in your recovery. My husband has hospital & illness phobia yet has been so wonderful in caring for me the last 4 1/2 months!! My youngest son (22 years) comes home periodically from his summer job residence and directly following my hip surgery we were travelling for our youngest daughter's wedding so I had all 5 kids pitching in here & there but the youngest son is over the top with helping! I had a commode at the rental house for the wedding so had a commode and he even discreetly would help me get on & off when I was too looped to know where I was headed. Family is the most wonderful thing ~ not sure we realize just how much they love us until they have to empty a commode full of wee!!