Ah
@Just4mules and
@kktoland the boredom!!!!

It is the one thing you have to do for yourself in this recovery, deal with the boredom. I found the first week or so the most boring as the meds made me foggy and I couldn't really concentrate on anything "meaningful", but I wasn't in pain or particularly feeling the need to lie down (I didn't spend any time in bed, I'd get up, shower, dress breakfast and go to my recliner... that took care of the first two hours of the day

) I'm just not a "bed" person, even the breakfast-in-bed Mother's Day treat when my kids were young was always a teeth-gritting affair for me! I also don't "do" daytime TV, I think you can see why already

Once my "meds load" lightened I was clearer headed and could at least surf the net... reading and my fave, cryptic crosswords came then too.
I love to craft and I didn't even want to go into my craft room, which surprised me as I had given myself "permission" to take time to do things I enjoyed while recovering, as time for such stuff is limited normally (I work from home, so I have to be very disciplined... my craft room is only 20 metres from my office, if I "just slipped in there" when I felt like it during a working day I would never get ANY work done, lol) Hubby was home for the first week, the dynamic was different while he was home.... once he went back to work I found my day quite full with just the day-to-day stuff.... a word of caution (please listen, I didn't when I was offered this advice!!) I felt really good in no time, I did have the Energy Drain and HAD to sit when it dictated, but when feeling good and able to "Do" I "Did" - it really doesn't take much to join the ODIC (Over Did It Club), and you don't necessarily pay the price at the time.
If you're like me, you get tendinitis (piriformis syndrome for me, I had psoas issues at first too but they've cleared) that can be VERY hard to shift. In fact it is only in the last few weeks, over a year out, that I don't have a problem
every day... I still get tight buns (not in a good way as my physio said

) if I am very active. When it reared it's ugly head at about three weeks I asked the physio if it was aggravated by my activity level and she replied "probably"... so it may have been coming anyway, but why risk it?

Next hip I will manage my activity more carefully. I know it sounds like a crock when you're feeling so good, and you think that this info is for those that are not doing as well as you... but it's a trap! Now, I won't be laying in bed next time either, it's just not me - but I will pace myself for sure.
The good thing is that as the days go by you
are more mobile and feel less tired/fuzzy/sore/swollen/uncomfortable and all the other negative stuff, so you will be able, very soon, to find things to occupy you - I really was silly, going shopping, visiting grandchildren and out for more than one meal by six days out - but if you pace yourself all is doable. I have suffered from Depression for many years, I would have been in real strife mentally if I had just laid in my recliner with ice as advised, so while I KNOW that's "The Way" if you can do it, I also know that some of us just can't do that 100% so
my advice is to pace yourself activity wise if you can't ice and elevate all the time, and try to remember you've had MAJOR surgery when using a bar against which to measure how much you should or can do. Little and often is better than going at it until you drop! Your main "job" right now is letting your body heal, boring I know!
I started working (like I said I work from home- bookkeeping) about half the day after about two and a half weeks... but I didn't do anything to do with Tax or Purchases for a week or so more ... just in case I wasn't as clear headed as I thought I was

What I discovered (particularly in regard to housework and chores) is that I'm not as indispensable as I thought, the place didn't get as messy as I thought it would (perhaps I contribute to the mess?!?) and hubby stepped up to the plate when required... also accepting offers of assistance is not as bad as you'd think; people LIKE to help (I know I do, and I think I'm pretty average in wanting to help if I can) you are in fact helping them feel good about themselves if you let them help.... I think you'll find it's the same with your work Julie, your colleagues may just find they have resources they didn't know they had because "someone"

has been doing for them. There was a bit of "catch up" when I started back at work, but it was nowhere near the chaos I was expecting... bit deflating to be honest to find out you're NOT "all that"
I had twelve weeks of hip precautions, more damage than they thought during surgery and when told I was to sleep on my back for 12 weeks I was devastated... but guess what? you DO adjust, in fact I now often sleep at least part of the night on my back, having not done so for 55 years prior!
So in short (well my posts are never short just read
my recovery thread
) It will get better, and soon :cool:
Happy Healing
Donna
