Dear sweet Ellen - I was so very, very pleased

to see your post.......you have such a wonderful sense of humour........mine is completely "off the wall" & very sick, or is that sic!. As you know only too well, recovery has been very hard at times, but I figure I have one life, make it count. I actually got sick of crying

........it wasn't fun & I had things I needed & wanted to do. Crying was wasting good time. I hadn't been driving, but about 5 weeks ago, my daughter phoned (she is quite ill at the moment - in desperate need of a hysterectomy) & she'd had the day off work, & phoned me to see if I could pick the kids up from school. Could I? Would I?

In a heartbeat, I would! The girls were so excited to see me (1 is now living with her Dad at the farm so I don't get to see her much - she is my "twin". ) And I was equally as excited to see them. From then on - no stopping me. The swelling is still in the lower leg, but the knee is really good. I've had huge difficulty getting solid shoes to fit & be comfortable, so, I "googled" & located some in the UK especially for lymphedema people & sent for 3 pr. 2 pr sandals & 1 pr of RED boat shoes. They are a size EEEE & are very comfy. The red is me making a statement - not sure about what, but a statement never-the-less

! Have got back to doing the grocery shopping too........funny how the little things become really important!!!! I so admire you for going for the second knee surgery......I guess surgery/replacement beats pain & falls any day! One good thing is that you will know when this or that happens, it's normal, having "been there, done that". I very much hope that your recovery on the next knee will be a lot easier & less painful than this one has been.
We have had a very cold winter down here..... -7 deg. overnight during the week & a maximum of 13. I feel the cold dreadfully

, so I drive everyone nuts having the heaters on. I'm still working; love what I do, as I said, & it keeps me out of mischief! Thankyou for your lovely comments about me........I'm no one special, but I do find if I tell myself something often enough, I end up believing it (I'm gullible, like that!!), and so I end up doing it - being brave, determined. But I do take some convincing!

Keep well, my dear friend. If you would like to keep in touch off forum, my email is:
pakline.payne@bigpond.com Bye for now.......love & blessings. Kerry