dandy_candi
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Ha ha, @Simplieme ! I just remember the days when if I'd asked him to join me in the shower he'd have jumped at the chance - these days he just groans and starts looking for the clean compression socks!
Haha isn't it funny how our priorities change? I am pre-op and all hubby keeps saying is 'I won't wipe your bottom.' And I keep assuring him that I won't ask him to and that my mum will be here if I really need anyone! And I tell him there are implements for everything! Haha
Candice, 28 yo. Rheumatoid Arthritis. Australia. Sequential unilateral THR June 1st 2016 and July 13th 2016
Australia
I guess we have to accept graciously and put it right later. It is asking a lot isn't it. ? I too have been ok in the bathroom this go around. But a few years ago when I had really bad back spasms he told everyone he almost thought he was going to have to wipe my bottom - I silently thought - honey you don't know how close you came!!!! 

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@Cynthia777 - am sooooo looking forward to the experience yet again 
(Only one drink with dinner but it was the first in a while!)