Well, my fellow hipsters, I have completed week 10. What a journey this has been! Each day I take some comfort in reading about other’s THR journeys. (Can I just say, I am totally in awe of those of you who had bilateral THR! You guys are warriors of recovery!). Some random things I’ve realised along the way:
1. I stink at sitting around, and this recovery business is loaded with it. Oh boy, I had to take a crash course in this. I’m a beginner knitter, and thank goodness for yarn and needles. I’ve made a dozen newborn beanies for our local hospital. I also USED to stink at sleeping on my back, but big surprise—I’ve learned to do it! (But not sitting around—I still stink at that.)
2. The soothing power of ice is something awesome. Slip on shoes are the bomb.
3. I should maybe have looked harder at the anterior approach surgery. Since my posterior mini approach has really stirred up glute tendonopathy, I’m making slooooow progress. Seems like lots of the anterior folks bounce back faster? (Also, a friend regaled me with the glowing reports of his ex-wife’s recovery from an anterior hip replacement, and why did I NOT Choose that? Why did I still need ice—his ex never had to sit on ice. Etc etc. Not helpful, buddy!)
4. I wish I had known that you not only need to choose your surgeon, but you should also meet the PA, too. I’ve only ever gotten to talk to the PA post op, other than my 6week visit. I’ve had lots of questions and concerns (dang, but this kind of major surgery does bring out a ton of anxiety, at least it did for me) and the PA is NOT a warm fuzzy. He makes me feel like a pain in his butt when he returns my calls. I could really use some empathy from him, but that ain’t happening. Thank god for Bonesmarties!
5. Even though I’m still struggling with a bunch with incision and glute tendon pain, I notice that slowly, secretly, my ROM has been improving all on its own. I can put on my own jeans now, without the reach thingy! Yay! Next, I hope I’ll be surprised by how long I can walk without pain. (This is one of the things I was so wrong about going into this process. When I heard “3 month activity restrictions “ I figured after that I’d be pretty much good to go. Hahahahaha. Oh boy. Nope. That’s only two weeks away, and I’ve got a much longer journey ahead of me. Now I see that 6-12 months is more realistic for that 3 mile hike I’ve been longing to take. I haven’t been able to walk that far in 3 years, so I admit to being soooooo anxious for this!
6. My hubby is a gem to be walking this journey with me.
Also, this forum is a godsend.