@tiredwife Yes, that is a fireplace behind us. It's floor to (10 ft.) ceiling stone. It's a shame but we rarely use it. Usually only at holiday time. I wish it was gas but it is wood burning and would cost a fortune to run a gas line to it. When this house was built there wasn't natural gas out here at all. About 5 years after we moved in (27 years ago) they brought gas in and offered if anyone would put in one gas appliance they would run gas lines to the house for free. We chose to do a gas water heater. In retrospect I wish we would have run gas to the fireplace. But, gas fireplaces weren't that common back then. Anyway, that is our "formal" living room where we rarely hang out. We're almost always in our much smaller family room.
The younger son and wife love to take vacations and usually go on cruises out of Florida. I'm happy for them that they are able to do that. They will be married 6 years in October and both are 31. I think they know if they have kids the vacations, if any, will be very much different from what they enjoy now. I told them when they were first married that I had no interest in being a full time babysitter when the time comes. Been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. I'm happy to help out in a pinch but not as a full time gig.
Our older son and wife have been married just 2 years. She was working on getting her doctorate so kids were definitely off the table until that was accomplished. She got her doctorate in May this year. She's been working at Indiana University/Perdue University @ Indianapolis (IUPUI) as an adjunct professor teaching women's health classes. She is a Physician's Assistant. Her program director got fired so they moved her up to that position until they find a replacement which will probably be around a year. So I think kids are off the table until that happens. They are both 33 and 34 right now.
Both our boys work for Walmart. Zack (younger one) is a store manager and Nick (older) is an assistant manager. They both went to work for Walmart when they were in high school. Zack is a little higher up the management ladder than Nick because Nick took 4 years off for college plus 2 years in the Navy. Zack worked all through college because he was going to school close to home and didn't have to move on to campus.
Our other daughter in law, the one with the curly dark hair standing next to me, works for Verizon. They all keep so busy working we don't get to see them or spend much time with them. Zack usually does make a point to come by and see us once a week when he is off work. Zack and I are like 2 peas in a pod. His brother, not so much. They are just completely different in so many ways. But, we love them both and both of their wives. We couldn't have wished or hoped for sweeter, more loving daughters in law.