Meezermom
junior member
- Joined
- Feb 20, 2013
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- 79
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- Northern California
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Alison. This is not a race. Just ICE AND ELEVATE YOUR KNEE 1 This is the absoslute best place for advice. Honest. Don't let anyone push you or hurt you. You are in CONTRIOL.(Well actually your knee is) Most OS have never had their knees replaced. I was so depressed I cried for the first 2 months everyday totally depressed. Thank God I found this site. Josephine is an Angel. Will your regular MD give you pain meds. You really need them to get through this. I tried to cut back and was still in terrible pain crying all the time. My poor husband was beside hisself. I do know this much. We who are on this site and have gone through the surgery understand your pain and suffering. Shame on these doctors! PLEASE know that you cannot bend a knee that is swollen and tissue damaged. just keep icing it and elevate it ( Make sure you elevate it above your heart lying flat is best.) This is going to take some time don't try to rush it. It is what it is ! Sending Love and prayers for a speedy healing and PATIENCE
which was so embarrassing but I just couldn't help it. He stopped when I asked but I was beyond the point of no return 

it's very hard to be up-beat when you see no progress.
also,
you also

Just some very gentle walking and stretching - otherwise reading and elevating and icing. I managed a short visit to my beautiful horses this afternoon - just sat in my chair watching them graze together in the sunshine and gave some carrots and cuddles. They are so good for my soul
. The drive is uncomfortable, even though my car is automatic and its my left leg and doing nothing, just the pressure causes aching. But it is worth it for the great emotional pick-me-up that I get from being around them.

Here are a few of her "motivational" comments - "You are not getting anywhere" "Your pain is not controlled" "You should be doing hanging flexions plus towel stretches on the bed at least every hour and you need to push far harder through the pain" "Forget the pain, you need to dig your knuckles into that swelling and break it down" "It is going to take you a long time to progress at this rate".
. Wow! She seems to have her knickers in a twist. Was she trying to impress someone on the team with her knowledge and compassion.

doesn't it feel great
not everyone is drugged up to their :rolleyes: I do a half pain