Thank you so much Charmed Life. I do need to remember where I've been and how far I've come.
Celle, I appreciate your input! I have been stressing about needing an MUA since week 2! My Mum used to say I do enough worrying for 10 people. LOL
I put on some Bio Oil last evening at bed time. Keep in mind this is a HUGE step for me. First time I have actually LOOKED at my incision. I've done a few quick glances, but never really studied it. First time I have touched my knee at all in any way. I didn't do any massage, just smeared it around to help with the dry skin. If I happened to move over the upper end of the site, fine, but I didn't focus on that. What shocked me was how much I could FEEL the swelling. Hadn't expected that. When I stand, I feel like I have a water balloon on my knee. Touching it last evening, it felt like one as well!
Because of my keloid proclivities, I've done reading on them several times over the years, saw 2 different skin specialists. Vit. E and / or Bio Oil are the number 1 things suggested to assist with healing better with less of a build up. I hadn't investigated if that relates to adhesions, so glad you have said they aren't really the same. I am much calmer than I've been in weeks!
One last thing: at one point I was talking with one of the pet sitters; they are still coming in twice a day to help with the cats. Scooping 9 litter boxes once a day and filling food bowls twice a day, topping off the water. I'm not bending well enough to do all that yet. I have taken on the dogs care since my 3rd day home from rehab, as that is mostly opening the door to let them out, let them in. Prevents me from sitting too long. I do feed them once a day, but they eat in the kitchen, a wide open area, I could maneuver with my walker. Anyway, I said something to her about having lived like this for about year. She walked me over to the calendar on my wall and showed me it had been 3 weeks to the day since surgery. I was shocked! I sure did get lost in the fog of pain and pain meds! I am starting to wonder if I need a completely different pain regimen for the second knee.