@opie As the song goes "You've Only Just Begun"
I'm jealous of you. I only had one hip done, but couldn't get into my shower for two weeks because I have a bath/shower combo and I had to raise my leg about 10" to get in.
I remember a few days after surgery looking at my leg and being totally shocked at how black and blue it was all the way down my lower leg. I sent my daughter a picture and she was shocked as well. But it will a go away. Have no fear!!
I think you're doing great. Keep reminding yourself you're just s few days out from major surgery. Rest, Ice and Elevate, and take your Pain Meds as prescribed. Your body needs to heal. Force yourself to do as little as possible. At least for a few more weeks.
I cried one evening being in pain, frustrated, sick of being patient. The last time I cried was 3 years previous when my dogs died.
I'm single, independent and hated feeling unable to meet all my needs. Thank God my next door neighbor helped me, driving me to Dr. appointments, picking up prescriptions, bringing me
groceries.
I had no idea how extensive a recovery it would be. But tonight I went to a Superbowl party and was more mobile than last year when I went to the same party.
Be kind to yourself - listen to your body and give it what it needs. Treat yourself the same way you would nurse a child recovering from major surgery. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.