@CricketHip, rest assured that no post from you is 'too long'. I enjoy your insight and help and hearing how life is going for you.
THANK YOU so much for the bamboo roller recommendation. It's funny because I had looked at the foam roller a couple of times this week wondering if I should get it and if it would be easier on my incision than the manual massages I was doing. I watched a video on how to use them and honestly wasn't sure I could:
A) get down on the ground to use it, and
B) get back
up after using it.

The bamboo roller looks perfect and I just now ordered myself one.

I so look forward to getting it and using it.
I have to take my referral slip into my PT place this next week to see what they have to say. I got to looking at it and it only runs to the 19th of this month. I don't see my OS until March 7th, so I might be without PT until I see him, and perhaps for good if he deems me 'done'. We'll see.
The exercises I feel pretty good about. I have learned to do mine regularly because missing a day (or more) just makes me very stiff. They are all ones I can do with minimal equipment (dog leash for the quad and hamstring stretches and an aerobic stair stepper - that I originally got to help me get in and out of my husband's SUV).
It's the massage that I would really miss. My little PT gal gets in there and massages the heck out of my thighs and it is heavenly. She even massages my incisions for me and it doesn't bother me when she does them (probably because she's doing them correctly, while my ham fisted self is not).

I feel like the bamboo roller could really help with that.
Also, thank you for your encouragement about the gait getting better. I absolutely believe that now. Today marks one week since I have used my cane and I can tell a difference. Between my PT exercises and walking quite a bit, I am definitely strengthening my legs and hips.
I think that my side sleeping issue has a lot to do with my posterior approach. My scars are right at that 'sweet spot' where I lay. I am hoping it will just take time and work with the roller to get them where they need to be. I also need to work on my flexibility because it's still difficult for me to roll from side to side. Perhaps I'm being overly cautious, but I'm scared of flailing around too much and hurting my shiny new hips.
It will all come with time, I'm sure.
@Readysetgo,
yes! It is so true that it is very different when my PT does my incision massage from when I do it. You have a great point about the lactic acid possibility. I was surprised at how tender both incisions still are at 19 and 10 weeks post op. I mean,
DUH, we read here so much about how it takes a good year, or even more, for all the healing to take place. I'm not sure why I thought I'd be completely good to go in such a short time. LOL!
Thank you for your good wishes for my son. He is feeling better today, so we got out and went to lunch. I thought the fresh, mild air would do him good after being cooped up in his room for a couple of days.
I didn't hear back from the doctor's office about his tests, so I'm hoping that's a good thing. I'll be calling them on Monday to (hopefully) get the results.
Enjoy your weekend, friends. Hopefully it is mild where you all are after a week of pretty wild weather all over!
