I hear you Lynn. I find myself thinking the same thing sometimes. My muscle/tendon--or whatever it is--problem really gets to me and I think how my recovery would have been a breeze if not for that injury happening. It is so painful. I get very angry--the hip itself is fine ... why did the muscle/tendon injury have to rain on my parade????!!!! I start to feel like the odd man out.
Many of us here have had difficulties. Dianemarie's nerve damage ... or Cathy's "can't get rid of that cane completely no matter how hard I try" thing going on ... or, Poppet's "everytime I do something new I hurt in other areas" ... Although it is kind of comparing apples to oranges, the common thread is that many of us have odd, unexpected, very frustrating things that have happened to us in the surgery or recovery process that has delayed things--no matter what it is, it's is SO frustrating for sure!! I know I get to the point where I want to just chop my leg off and grow a new one--keep the hip, I just want a new leg that doesn't hurt! I just can't believe that I'm still popping Percocet to get me through the day at 16 weeks post op! My problem was so preventable--grrrrrr!
So, although we don't all share the same hiccup in the recovery, there really are many people here getting through recovery where it hasn't been clear sailing. Odd too, how it sometimes happens with no rhyme or reason--just like your fracture happened after the surgery--who could have seen that coming?? Frustrating!! Maybe things will get a lot better after your wire(s) are removed. That has to be crazy to deal with. Keep us posted.
Regardless, know that there are others here who can identify with your frustration. Not that anyone would be happy that there are others suffering ... but I think you know what I mean. And, there are many other nice people who surely empathize with your (and the rest of our) situation(s). Kindness is rampant here.
Dorothy