Hi
@Clairebella 
This stage of recovery is certainly, as I remember, a time of slooow, booring progress....

I know it is frustrating but it does sound very similar to my recovery and at one month out, insecurity about the success of my op along with the post op blues started to weigh on me.
I just had to remind myself often -
Tightness is a normal occurrence after this kind of major surgery. Your surgeon did major carpentry work and disturbed every millimeter of soft tissue in this area. You aren't tight because your muscle is underused and needs to be stretched and rehabbed. You're tight because your tissue is healing... If a long full step right now is causing pain and limping, don't take long full steps. Take smaller steps. Take a short walk several times a day, instead of longer walks. Use your cane. Use ice. Rest a lot.
It sounds like you have been doing this!
This isn't the time to do anything to excess. Baby steps now, and lots of patience, pays off big time later.
Consider yourself as still recovering from surgery and structure your return to your life as a slow, gradual process where you introduce very small increments in activity, and then give yourself time to see how you react to it.
My thigh feels tight and calf and it’s more dead leg/numbness I
This was definitely my experience too. It gets better just not as quickly as we would like.
Also, when I go from sit to stand I start off with a limp, is that normal? I did that before.
Yes, I had the start up Stutter Step thing going on for the first 3-4 months. After we rest, seems like everything goes into pause mode.
I would get up. March in place and wake things up before setting off.
Had shower and did my calf raises and attempted to stretch quads but it was really painful to do.
Don't know what kind of quad stretches you are attempting, but my quads were definitely the most traumatized part of my anatomy after BTHR.
I found VERY gentle hamstring stretches using the wall a few times a day the most helpful.
Keep the faith, my hippy friend.
Early days, and All Temporary!
