@Sara61 - thank you so much for your words of encouragement - helps massively to hear how well you are doing now! And yes, it will be an adjustment when my youngest moves out but I’m trying to see it as a positive and a chance for me to look after myself only instead of everyone else. I’m also looking forward to our relationship changing. When my eldest moved out for uni it was hard to adjust at first but now we have a totally different adult relationship and it’s great.
@DJL1967 - shoulder injuries are a total pain! My dog pulled me over in May and I ended up with a fracture, torn tendons, torn ligaments and torn cartilage because I landed on a fully outstretched, fully extended arm and still holding the lead. A&E said I just had swelling and bruising but it didn’t feel right and luckily I have a physio friend who sent me for an MRI. Still hoping I can avoid shoulder surgery but not feeling good right now.
Day 24 - slow and steady progress but pain still a huge issue. Was hoping not to have to get more oral morphine but need it for the breakthrough pain, especially at night, and have an amazing GP practice. All I have to do is fill out the online consultation and they get back to me the very next day. Been at the same practice for 21 years so they know that I understand how to come off addictive drugs already from my back surgery and they also trust me, knowing that I only ask for pain relief when I absolutely have to.
Had to take the dog to the vet yesterday - my friend was staying so drove us down there in my car. Long delays at vet and after an hour I told them I couldn’t wait anymore because of the pain and it was my first day out of the house. Started crying and they immediately grabbed my dog, gave her an antibiotic injection and we were on our way home 5 minutes later. Hopefully her eye infection will properly clear up now. Love my dog - she’s a Japanese Akita - super gentle and very loving but an absolute money pit. Poor love already has a titanium leg and a stainless steel leg which has given her arthritis. She’s only 7 but has had £23K worth of vet treatment! Ouch - grateful we have insurance but premiums getting higher each year. My daughter is going to take her when they move out on 6th November - just for a few weeks - don’t want her to go but think it’s the most sensible thing for my recovery.
When I can’t sleep I read all the stories and articles here which gives me a greater understanding of what I’ve been through and what to expect. Am in awe at the strength displayed by everyone - some of the threads are painful to read - incredible what people can get through.