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I am sorry to hear you are having so much pain :boohoo: Sometimes it seems so unfair. I hope your OS will take you seriously and see you so you can fix it quickly. Let us know how it goes! I will be thinking of you.
 
OMG Shelly I can't believe you worked this week. I hope your work is sedentary and you can continue just part time. And yeah, I don't know if the fatigue is the constant pain/lack of sleep either! Plus the assault to our bodies of the actual surgery and all the drugs. I sure wish I had been in a position for a BTKR! I'd be so much closer to walking normal! Isn't it amazing that that's all most of us want is to just be able to walk normal without constant pain? Debbie I know there are people so much worse off! But what kind of life is this? Can't work, can barely take care of myself let alone a house and can't even think straight when the pain is like this. The thought of going through the process of treating my non-op leg, getting whole thing going for a replacement, all the waiting, more pain then troubling everyone with another surgery. Exhausting my family and friends again. What a mess..and can't control one iota of it.
I am going to make my way to south coast plaza one of these days, sit on Santa's lap and ask for another new knee...and Debbie I will include curing cancer and finding homes for all our friends on the east coast!
 
Well pleased to see you again on here Marianne but sorry about the pain youre having with your good knee. Its not fair is it we have to cope with that as well after all weve been thru with the operated knee. I had a really bad time with my good a few weeks ago but thankfully it seems to have calmed down again. My OS looked at the x rays at my six week check and said "Right when do you want it done" I told him not yet. I am not yet physcically strong enough to cope with another op so soon. This op has overwhelmed me and I need time to recover. Its very cold and damp here at the moment which always makes my joints worse. Hope you feel better soon and perhaps the visit to the other OS will help. Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. And welcome back I missed you:friends:
 
Hello Marianne, you will be okay, just do the recommended exercises regularly, and drink lots of fluid
 
I'm so sorry about your pain in the non-operated knee! I hope you can get some relief (cortisone injection? Synvisc?) to get you through! It's awful dealing with constant pain. Hugs to you, dear.
 
Aah so sorry to hear your non-operated knee is giving you so much pain, Marianne. I hope you get to see your doc tomorrow and not have to wait for another couple of weeks. Sometimes you wonder if some docs really care, don't you? Let us know how you get on.

I think the majority of us are not patient patients, especially when it comes to pain, poor you :flwrysmile:
 
Hugs Brownie! I got one of those think positive posts from Debbie too, and I know she meant nothing but the best. But let me tell you I feel much the same as you. This tkr has affected me alot too. This **** hurts!! And the recovery is soooo long, that you can really get down at times.

Have you had a cortisone shot in your good knee? I got one at 6 weeks and it was a lifesaver. Now I could focus on the tkr knee and not worry about the other one. Hugs!
 
Hugs Brownie! I got one of those think positive posts from Debbie too, and I know she meant nothing but the best. But let me tell you I feel much the same as you. This tkr has affected me alot too. This mess hurts!! And the recovery is soooo long, that you can really get down at times.

Gail and Marianne, I didn't know that posting a positive post would offend you, sorry about that. But I guess I know several people that have it a lot harder then I do and I try and keep everything in perspective. If I am down in the dumps all the time it can be very hard emotionally for me to handle. So I always try to look on the brighter side of things and if that offends you I am sorry.
 
I've been off line for a while, but having checked back in, I am so sorry, Brownie, that you are struggling so. It's bad enough dealing with the operative knee! It is very hard, and thank goodness for this forum to vent, to get empathy, and some TLC from those who know. I am eager to hear how your OS responds tomorrow, and pray that you will get some relief SOON.
 
Debbie joints no offense taken, and if you re read my post you will see I said I know you meant only the best. But sometimes some of us just have a harder time seeing positives. With me battling being sick for nearly 40 years it gets hard after awhile. With me at least, it makes EVERYTHING harder. But really no offense meant or taken. Hugs!
 
Oh good Gail, because to me is sounded (I know reading what other people write can be taken wrong) but I thought you were mad at me. hugs, I am very sad right now, and will write why in a post on my thread.
 
Hi Marianne!
Oh sweetie, I'm sorry things are so tough right now. I do remember feeling so defeated and down, too. Does your un-operated knee feel worse when storms are coming? It has something to do with low or high (I can't remember) pressure. I hear that CA is going to be having some rain storms, maybe once that passes you will have a tiny bit of relief? Know that I care and my shoulder is always here.
 
Thank you all so much! My non op knee wasn't as bad this am. We got a tiny bit of rain today. So I do not understand this thing with the weather.
Debbie...no no no! I did not mean to insinuate anything regarding what you wrote!!! I just know I am doing great compared to many others and I do feel kind of guilty for complaining when others' challenges are so much bigger than mine. but i still wanted to complain and feel sorry for myself...:angel: and I know you would encourage me to vent! Nothing wrong with your post Debbie. I am feeling so bad about your BIL now too. What an awful thing for your sister and family to go through after all of his medical issues. I posted on your thread.
I had less pain this am so didn't call the OS. Had PT at 10 then went to Target for a brace, that wore me out and slept the rest of the day. Tire so easily, ridiculous!
Nanners, you got cortisone in your non op knee at 6 weeks. Okay so I will go ahead and call or email dr tomorrow and let him know I need that. I've had Synvisc in it with no change. Right now I need relief because it is impairing my rehabbing my new knee. I suppose I need to try another Synvisc and can't do that with cortisone. Synvisc doesn't bring the instant relief that you get with cortisone.
Thank you all for your support. I really feel like I have gained friends from all over the country/world! I can come here and talk about my pain, fatigue and all that stuff and you all understand and have gone through it too. I love knowing what is coming next and what works and what doesn't.
Well the good news at PT today is that my flex was 132, with me bending it myself, not pushing on it. So 3 days of complete rest got me to 132! Isn't that amazing??? And it also calmed down my non op knee although the fluid is still there.
Thank you all my friends! XOXOXOXO
 
Marianne so pleased everything went well with physio. The flex at 132 is brilliant well done. I think the cortisone sounds like a good idea. If you get some relief in your non op knee you can concentrate on your other knee. I think like you sometimes Bilateral sounds like a good idea. Get it all over done with. You keep resting and take care.
 
I am relatively new here and have been so down I have not felt like doing anything I am almost 5 weeks and was feeling good I thought, had a pt session the other day and now I've been in bed I get so frustrated. I to thought I would be up and around by now boy I had no idea. I also need to do my other knee and this week has been an eye opener. I am glad I logged in today I don't feel alone. This surgery is so hard for people to understand how one day your up and about and the next your in bed all day, geez even I have a hard time understanding blah, blah, blah that's how I feel lately. Oh well I hope everyone has a good day :)
 
I am relatively new here and have been so down I have not felt like doing anything I am almost 5 weeks and was feeling good I thought, had a pt session the other day and now I've been in bed I get so frustrated. I to thought I would be up and around by now boy I had no idea. I also need to do my other knee and this week has been an eye opener. I am glad I logged in today I don't feel alone. This surgery is so hard for people to understand how one day your up and about and the next your in bed all day, geez even I have a hard time understanding blah, blah, blah that's how I feel lately. Oh well I hope everyone has a good day :)
It does cheer you up coming on here and feeling other people are going thru the same as you. Family and friends will never ever understand and Im sick of trying to explain. I think the thought of having the other one done as well looms in the future and wont go away. Do hope you feel better soon. I was going to say watch some festive films but they are mostly sad anyway arent they. Give that a miss. Hey Ho we will get there. Take Care.
 
Oh my goodness I couldn't find my thread! I want to start writing my issues on here so when I am mad at my dr and his office I am not putting all that negativity into all of your threads!
Josephine can you please change the name of my thread and call it Brownie's Good, Bad and Uglies :rotfl: Thank you!

So you've all probably read my saga with my OS's office and bedside manner so you can take a nap now if you've heard it all already!

I believe I need my "good" knee replaced, at the least to have treatment, which my OS will not address because he says it's going to get better... even though I keep complaining that its getting worse, so painful. It actually feels worse than my TKR knee ever did before surgery. I hoped for a cortisone shot this week to help my recovery because it's hard to walk on it but my emails last Friday were ignored. (Calling and leaving messages is a waste of time) Also ignored were my PT office's 3 faxes over the last week, to renew my PT orders. My last session is tomorrow but hopefully the problem has been solved by my having them fax the orders to my primary doctor who has responsive conscientious staff. We'll see but I am not going to be freaked out if there is no more PT because I can do all of it at home. I have a borrowed exercycle and my own treadmill and a nice neighborhood to do my walking.

Only thing I'm lazy about is lining up a heated pool. In summer I will use my own pool. So I have pretty much decided to switch doctors and go to someone recommended by the nurses at the hospital and who does the minimally invasive procedure which my doctor does not do. So I wanted to see Nightquilter's OS but he does not take my insurance, very disappointed but another doctor is also recommended by the nurses so I have an appointment with him Jan. 10th.

I see my current OS next Thursday the 13th. I will be curious to see if makes any comment about my email to him, where I copied my email to his assistant. I mentioned that I had given up calling and leaving messages because they are never returned without multiple messages being left. I went through all this during the summer where they sat on scheduling my MRI and I ended up having to email the Dr that I was worried my custom implant was not going to be ready for my OR date. Suddenly they called me and said they'd line it up. They had 2½ months to get all the prep done but waited very late. My implanted was shipped out on the Friday before my Tuesday surgery. I was a nervous wreck. The doctor was not even aware that it had been cut so close.

So last night after reading Nightquilter's posts I was checking on the doctors on Healthgrade and Vitals and checked my current doc and he had many reviews about his awful bedside manner, rudeness, and the office got low stars. So I feel better knowing it's not just me being a whiner. Nightquilter's doc/PA's get back "immediately", I want to know I can get help if I need it! I had a wound infection and the only way I could reach my doctor ended up being to page him after hours. And I wouldn't have had the nerve to do that if my son hadn't told me to do it. My doctor doesn't leave time in the conversation for me to mention much especially not how many calls and email it took before I resorted to having him paged.

Same in the office, you ask a question about why something pops post op over the knee he just says it's fine, won't comment at all. I read all of you quoting your doctor's individual info yours give you at office visits about recovery etc. Nope none of that. My knee came out well and that's the important part but most docs are doing the minimally invasive now. I had assumed my guy was, we were distracted by a benign tumor so I hadn't asked early about that early on. So I found out when it was far too late to consider another doctor.

I guess I worry that sometime I might have a real concern such as a clot or more serious issue and won't get the help I need. This is a doozy of a surgery to have a physician like mine who has a dysfunctional office and personality. There were so many other issues but i've probably lost most of you by now!

So I will do these long drawn out complaints in my own threads.

So bottom line see my doc the dec. 13 and consulting with new doc Jan. 10th. Yeah! :happydance: And thank you all!!!!
 
Marianne, Jo is off for a couple of days, but any Mod can make most changes for you. I have changed the name of your thread as you requested.
 
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