Saw the surgeon and we talked about having the replacement. I'm ready. He's ready. It's happening. I even asked if he thought it was the right thing to do now and he laughed. He said, it was ready when I saw you two years ago! But, thankfully he does not believe I've damaged the rotator cuff and I'll be able to have a regular replacement.
I learned some things, though. We talked about the short stem implant. He said it's fine but more often used in younger patients who might need a revision at some point. It's obviously easier to remove for revision surgery. But he said, contrary to what the manufacturer brags about on their web site, recovery is not easier/faster/less painful or anything. It's the same.
I wasn't aware of exactly how the surgery went for a shoulder replacement, but I'm smarter now. What I didn't know is the rotator cuff is cut and then sewn back together. Well, duhh.....now knowing that, I realize that this recovery WILL be painful and long. When he described it, it sounded just like a knee but worse because you must be in a sling for six weeks. So, now I understand why all of you who have had shoulders replaced report significant pain for quite a while.
We have some planned trips in October, so the surgery will be in November. I'm thinking it may be the day after Thanksgiving, but the scheduler is so busy that we haven't zeroed in on a date yet. Maybe Monday....she's supposed to call me back.
I am dreading that long recovery. I may not be able to type for six weeks! That will be very difficult for me as I'm on the computer for hours each day!
Looks like I'm just one day in the hospital so hubby thinks he can stay by himself rather than going to a respite place for a few days. We'll see about that.... Puppy dog will go to the kennel until I'm sure I can take her out for short walks in the front yard. She's so spoiled, that's the only place she'll go!