Oh dear
octopus I'm sorry that you have groin pain, or any pain, really. I'm glad you're not doing any PT that can cause it to get worse. It's best to just go easy on yourself and let it go away. Remember to ice as much as you can- even at work. I used to bring 4 -5 gel ice packs in a lunch kit with a hard frozen cold pak in it to keep them cold, and use them at work - on my groins, and my butt - I sat on them pre-op! It really helped.
My OS feels I have soft tissue inflammation, and that's what's causing my groin pain now. He said it would get better. I hope so, I have it on both sides. I avoid flexion of the hip, and bending as much as possible, because it aggravates the groin. And I'm careful with walking and any weight bearing. Also, if I sit leaning a little back with the hips less flexed it helps me. I still use a cane alot to take the stress off the groins. Also, Arnica cream that Poppet told us about - it has natural anti-inflammatory abilities to it.
And too bad about the buttock pain - mine hurts often, too. It's probably the muscles getting a little stiff and sore from sitting. I wonder if a pillow would help that? Getting up and down all day is stressful for the hips, and you probably use the gluteus muscles when you go to stand up. I bought one of those Forever Comfy gel foam cushions at Bed Bath and Beyond. They're $20 and I know they're on line "as advertised on TV". They're pretty comfortable, but sort of heavy to lug back and forth. I wonder if that would help if you sat on something like it at work? Just a thought.
Well, I hope it's getting better for you. There's several of us here with pain issues, still, unfortunately. Feel better,
octopus! Keep us posted on how you're doing. Everyone's here for you.
