Isn't this Forum just the best!!!:ThankYou:to everyone for everything!
No news on the job

but as each day passes instead of constant obsession about whether they have tried to phone me I am now looking for the thin "rejection letter" envelope on the doormat! But still never mind...as you all said, the experience and the milestone mean a great deal to me.
Here's my update for 12 and half weeks .
I'm just back from my first post-op Physio appt! And it was so very very helpful! Far more helpful and beneficial than I had anticipated because it is so far down the line.
She reminded me, that I have only been walking for a week:DOH:. In my head I hadn't made the distinction between gradually increasing weight bearing on crutches to actual walking unaided. And she said I'm doing really great for one week!

(In my head I thought I HAD been walking for 5 weeks!)
She explained and showed me just how far I still have to go to get the muscles properly strengthened on the left side. Quite an eye opener actually...I was so unconfident to try and was still so wobbly when she asked me to try to stand just on my operated leg!!
I asked about swimming and she said not just yet...in a couple of weeks she will send me to the Hydrotherapy pool for some safe instructions of what I will be able to do in the pool.
Above all else, she said, you are in charge of this hip, you still have a good 3 months to go before all the muscles will be getting to be right and I have to advocate for myself at work and really let people know that I am still only part way through this recovery. Which was very empowering and reassuring.
She said to remember that I am not a standard case and shouldn't compare myself to others progress or treatment. She told me to go slowly and definitely at least until I go back to the Surgeon for the review in August.
It was also that she said, your muscles etc are so weak from all the years before, where everything was wrong..not simply because of the 7 weeks nwb which was also very helpful to remember and understand.
She advised I could use a cane, but really only as a last resort, keep it in my bag and only use if I get stuck somewhere and can't walk back. But not to ever use it for proper relief of weight bearing, only to keep me from dipping down on the left side when tired from walking. So I'm off to buy myself a pretty, folding "lady cane"!
(Oh, I must tell you, she told me about a man who went up in his loft at 6 weeks and dislocated while he was crouching up in the loft!!! Can you imagine that????!!!!!!!!!!)
So, I have now been driving for three days, which is absolutely fabulous! But still taking walks each day.
Saw GP yesterday and he gave me a certificate to go back to work tomorrow as planned with a phased return. After seeing the Physio I am going to make absolute certain that they understand that I still cannot push myself and tiredness etc will feature a great deal.
I'm a little apprehensive about going back to work tomorrow, 12 weeks away is a long time, but no doubt all will be well and I'll soon feel as if I was never away.
A huge heartfelt thanks again to everyone and for this forum where I have been able to record my journey.
Wishing everyone all the very best
